Sorry for the long read, but I promise it’s worth it
I was tossed back and forth, with one person saying this and another saying that about head coverings. I struggled with the issue, especially because I was one of the few who wore a head covering in my Baptist church. This situation prompted me to conduct extensive research on the topic. I discovered that the use of head coverings varies significantly. In the Netherlands, it was surprising to find that as churches became less confessional (minder bevindelijk gereformeerd), the practice of wearing head coverings diminished. Some women, who came from a strict church background, exhibit the opposite behavior; they abandon wearing head coverings altogether. I was surprised to learn that Bible-believing churches in other countries also said no to head coverings. And also saying "no"to long hair for the woman. This led me to a deeper examination to understand the intentions behind the apostolic teachings.
I feel like a beginner in this, but...I’ve come to realize that praying and prophesying during assemblies hold greater significance than previously thought. Ephesians 5:18-21 emphasizes that our gatherings should be led by the Spirit and include mutual encouragement through 'psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs.' Similarly, 1 Thessalonians 5:11 advises, 'Wherefore comfort yourselves together, and edify one another, even as also ye do.'
The Greek text uses 'λαλοῦντες' (lalountes), meaning 'speaking,' followed by 'ᾄδοντες καὶ ψάλλοντες' (adontes kai psallontes), meaning 'singing and making melody.' This indicates that both speaking and singing play a role in the shared communication among believers. Who knows, maybe someone with more knowledge of Greek can say more about it.
Assemblies in Paul's time were quite different from contemporary practices. They involved communal meals, mutual encouragement, and were not solely centered around preaching. What we experience today often seems like a diminished version of those early gatherings. When I attended another small Baptist church that lasted for hours and was actively organized by church leaders, I wondered if this resembled the assemblies of the early church more closely. The service was conducted in a friendly but well-organized manner, with no (sacred) chaos. The leaders made sure to clearly explain the order of the service to those who were attending for the first time.
People encouraged one another in various ways: someone read a poem, another led a song, and others offered different forms of encouragement. Married women, including myself, wore head coverings, which aligned with the participatory nature of the service. Although not many women prayed aloud, a few young girls did so in Russian, ( ah... now I understand the need for translation, similar to the considerations for speaking in tongues). The encouragement was an integral part of the service before the preaching began, and the service concluded with a communal meal. The entire service lasted from 2 to 6 PM.
In conclusion, I am still reflecting on the practice of head coverings. Women are permitted to encourage, pray aloud during communal prayers, but should do so with their heads covered, as Paul instructed in his letter to the Corinthians.
I am curious to learn how other Baptist churches around the world and also Presbyterian churches approach this practice.