Joseph Scibbe
Puritan Board Junior
And a little coaching here, on the first date it is best to say "SInce we first talked I could not wait to see you again". Do not say " I really wanted to ask you out, and after posting on the Puritan Board whether I should or not, and getting x number of replies from my Calvinist geek friends, some who have actually been on dates and are married, I decided to ask you out."
Best advice on this subject so far.
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I agree that married people generally have more experience in dealing with marriage relationships. All things equal, I'd go to an older, married elder to get marriage advice.
This is exactly what I was expressing in my previous posts, so I don't know why you seem to be making such a big deal out of this. I never said single people had no wisdom, couldn't be used of God, or had nothing to offer in terms in advice.
I apologize. I misread your attitude that "these pithy single people are weighing in on this. who gave them such permission". I am sorry if I offended you or anyone else here.