Der Pilger
Puritan Board Freshman
I hope I'm posting this in the right forum.
I'm interested in getting thoughts and advice about dating and possibly marrying a non-Reformed, non-Calvinist. There's a girl I'm currently interested in who guessed that I'm a Calvinist because of my blog and my church history, but she also told me that she is not one. She is still interested in talking more with me, though.
The church she goes to is baptistic and solidly evangelical, and of course I'm okay with that. Assuming she is really not Calvinist (some people might say they aren't Calvinist but actually mean they aren't hyper-Calvinist), and also assuming she holds to orthodox views and nothing heretical, would you say it is unwise to get involved with her on a romantic level? Do you foresee any major conflicts or problems in such a relationship down the road?
Or perhaps the best way I can ask the question is: If you were single and in my place, would you date her?
Thanks for any feedback you can give, and if I need to clarify anything, just let me know.
I'm interested in getting thoughts and advice about dating and possibly marrying a non-Reformed, non-Calvinist. There's a girl I'm currently interested in who guessed that I'm a Calvinist because of my blog and my church history, but she also told me that she is not one. She is still interested in talking more with me, though.
The church she goes to is baptistic and solidly evangelical, and of course I'm okay with that. Assuming she is really not Calvinist (some people might say they aren't Calvinist but actually mean they aren't hyper-Calvinist), and also assuming she holds to orthodox views and nothing heretical, would you say it is unwise to get involved with her on a romantic level? Do you foresee any major conflicts or problems in such a relationship down the road?
Or perhaps the best way I can ask the question is: If you were single and in my place, would you date her?
Thanks for any feedback you can give, and if I need to clarify anything, just let me know.