ReformedWretch
Puritan Board Doctor
Lets say you're a pastor of a church and a new member begins to attend. You've met with him and you're convinced he is a born again believer. As you've gotten to know him you've seen what a great father he is, how he attends every service and participates, you've seen how attentive he is to other members giving them advice, direction, opinions, etc. all soundly biblically based as well. He's isn't rude or ignorant, but he isn't afraid to address the touchy subjects or to lovingly approach a brother in error. He often comes to you for advice and opinions in regard to his life, life style, choices, etc. He has a passion to do things the right, biblical way. He asks you to point out areas he can improve upon and shuns praise giving all credit to the Lord.
You've had this fella as a member for two years now and all of these traits have continued. You've learned that a few members of the church don't like this guy because "He thinks he knows everything" or "He's not perfect!" and other such statements. When you've pressed these members to further elaborate on why they do not like this man, all they have are uncomfortable looks and rolling their eyes act as if your just stupid if you don't know why they don't like him.
A leadership position within the Church suddenly becomes open. You believe this man would fill the void nicely and are prepared to ask him. Before you do, you want to address the few members who have "issues" with him.
What do you tell him? Do you expect him to do anything or show you anything in regard to those few who are annoyed by him for no good reason? You have some men in the Church who've been there for 20 years or more but they've never shown interest in leadership or if they have they refuse to make any life style changes to properly reflect Church leadership.
If you ask this new member (of 2 years) to consider the leadership role (Elder maybe for example) you know you're going to anger those who do not like him and they may sway a few others to their side.
So, what do you do? What should the man being considered for leadership do?
You've had this fella as a member for two years now and all of these traits have continued. You've learned that a few members of the church don't like this guy because "He thinks he knows everything" or "He's not perfect!" and other such statements. When you've pressed these members to further elaborate on why they do not like this man, all they have are uncomfortable looks and rolling their eyes act as if your just stupid if you don't know why they don't like him.
A leadership position within the Church suddenly becomes open. You believe this man would fill the void nicely and are prepared to ask him. Before you do, you want to address the few members who have "issues" with him.
What do you tell him? Do you expect him to do anything or show you anything in regard to those few who are annoyed by him for no good reason? You have some men in the Church who've been there for 20 years or more but they've never shown interest in leadership or if they have they refuse to make any life style changes to properly reflect Church leadership.
If you ask this new member (of 2 years) to consider the leadership role (Elder maybe for example) you know you're going to anger those who do not like him and they may sway a few others to their side.
So, what do you do? What should the man being considered for leadership do?