Rev. Buchanan,
Why is it relevant that Adam was formed first? Why should we restrict teaching and authority in the church because God made Adam first?
It's relevant to Paul's point, because he speaking to the church about order in the church. And the creation account is a matter of special revelation. That the man (male) alone was created first, and was given instruction of God, and performed the prophet's service of instructor to Eve, who was given her unique substance out of the original undivided human nature--this all speaks to a peculiar role assigned to various "heads" of institutions. It does not say that the class of men is superior to women in any/all spheres of life and human endeavor, or generally superior, or any such thing.
And, the whole matter is one of special revelation. Not one element of this counsel taught by Paul is accessible to men from general revelation. What general revelation teaches mankind as a whole, shorn of its interpretive counsel in Scripture, is perverted on account of the fall to self serving observations of nature's "laws," which in this case typically ends up as some expression of "the law of the jungle." Males, beasts driven by various levels of testosterone and pride, strive everywhere for domination; and if they don't strive for it, it must not be worth anything. "Hierarchy of strength" is not the same thing as "creation order."
Moreover, it is the revealed creation order that establishes a basis for the raising of women generally from a "place among the weak" to co-equal image bearers among men, and for the recognition of the superior competency of some women to some men in this or that. Where men and women respect the order of creation, a culture and civilization can be constructed that does not rely on force attempting a recast of nature, or view female competency as a threat of some kind.
The fallen world in which we live is full of inequities and bad order of every sort; but we can't always tell the difference at some particular point between a fundamental mixup, and people muddling through as best they can under the circumstances. At least in the church we have a foundation for clarity. Jesus is the permanent Head of this Institution. He's put men (exclusively) in the position of his ministers in part to serve as witnesses to his abiding human nature (X&Y) which he chose for himself; and it is "fitting" for males to represent him in his exclusive Mediatorial role. Further, the church (in a fallen world) will model the order of creation in a proper way to a confused population.
The structure of human societies larger than the family is not idealized in Scripture; and men are free to make trial and error of various set-ups, with or without women (or men) approved for this or that position. The Bible was not written to teach men to have or not have secular kings and/or queens, or the benefits of unicameral legislature comprised exclusively of eunuchs. Maybe one or the other of those will work best for some group. But I don't have to wonder what will be best for the church.
And why does it matter that the woman, not the man, was deceived? So Eve was deceived...what connection does that have to women not teaching in the church?
Eve was responsible to her head, Adam, who was both her husband and her prophet. She was deceived away from minding the role she was given for her good. The devil said in effect, "Why don't you try teaching Adam a thing or two about practical religion?" The text says nothing like she was deceived because she was the dumber of the two, or the more naive, or weaker in some way intrinsic to ladyhood (though some have suggested 1Pet.3:7 to this end). That she was deceived is, again, a matter of special revelation: it is WHAT happened as a matter of fact; and it happened as a result of not simply taking God at his (mediated) Word.
And inasmuch as she then turned and deceived Adam, as if she was a teacher and a revealer of truth to him, she challenged the order of creation (all the way up to the Creator). So as a matter of
returning religiously under the reign of God and his good order, there must be acknowledgment of this disorder which proceeded from the first woman, and a willing acquiescence to the proper order. But it does not follow that women cannot teach at all (in a school for example), or that they may only instruct other women (there are approved examples of men learning from women in the Bible).
So, again it cannot be that Paul presents an axiom, which being true in and for the church is also applicable
semper, ubique, ab omnibus. The things which are now--which are of this world destined to be shaken to nothing--we are not beholden to them to teach us what ultimate good-order contains. Many things pragmatism and good sense give sufficient guidance. And we should be careful about naming as sins all less-than-ideal choices.