LeeJUk
Puritan Board Junior
Hi Guys,
Well just to describe my situation a little bit. Unfortunately I really cannot afford to go to Highland Theological College in Dingwall even with government help so I am forced to go to Glasgow University as the closest university that is approved by the C of S.
So basically I will be going to university for 4 years. In this time I will have a part time job at most and will be living with my parents. God willing after receiving a BD in theology I will be an associate minister for a year and then after all that be allowed to be called to a church.
So whats the bottom line? I'll be living with my parents probably until I receive a manse after being called to a church under this plan because I simply won't have any good income till being called to a church.
So my question is, must I only begin courting and dating when I am close to being called to a church because only then will I be able to leave my parents and be able to put a roof over a wife's head.
I've just been thinking that you know if I did find a godly christian girl and pursue a relationship with her within the next year or 2 then It's a big ask to tell her to wait 4-5 years before I can ever get married and move into a home with her.
Whats your opinions and advice? (though I do say please don't make this a debate about Glasgow Uni vs Highland College, It's not up for debate and not the purpose of this thread. PM me if you want to speak about it). I know there a lot of Godly people on here who must of went through this kind of a thing whilst undertaking theological studies.
Thanks,
Lee
Well just to describe my situation a little bit. Unfortunately I really cannot afford to go to Highland Theological College in Dingwall even with government help so I am forced to go to Glasgow University as the closest university that is approved by the C of S.
So basically I will be going to university for 4 years. In this time I will have a part time job at most and will be living with my parents. God willing after receiving a BD in theology I will be an associate minister for a year and then after all that be allowed to be called to a church.
So whats the bottom line? I'll be living with my parents probably until I receive a manse after being called to a church under this plan because I simply won't have any good income till being called to a church.
So my question is, must I only begin courting and dating when I am close to being called to a church because only then will I be able to leave my parents and be able to put a roof over a wife's head.
I've just been thinking that you know if I did find a godly christian girl and pursue a relationship with her within the next year or 2 then It's a big ask to tell her to wait 4-5 years before I can ever get married and move into a home with her.
Whats your opinions and advice? (though I do say please don't make this a debate about Glasgow Uni vs Highland College, It's not up for debate and not the purpose of this thread. PM me if you want to speak about it). I know there a lot of Godly people on here who must of went through this kind of a thing whilst undertaking theological studies.
Thanks,
Lee