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Bryan:
What you point out, brother, is one side of the equation. What is centrally needed for all the parties, and I appreciate this much more the older I become and the longer I serve in the church, is what Augustine called the chief virtue of the Christian--humility.
Think of your desiderata in this light: the more humility I exercise, the least needlessly offensive I will be to others and I myself will not be easily offended. I'll be able to discuss doctrinal truth in a way that manifests both a commitment to Christ and a concern for love of the brethren (and not as if contending for abstract propositions). I need, in other words, to humble myself and regard my brother as better than myself and our discussion as a manifestation of my love for God and for him.
Peace,
Alan
Hi Dr. Strange,
In a stumbling manner, this is what I meant to express in my second point, advocating speech with conviction but without vitriol. I would hold thick skin and humble speech that pursues the good of the brethren to both be essential requirements of Reformed ecumenism.