TryingToLearn
Puritan Board Freshman
I was reading Polanus and he argues both that:
1) marriages contracted between children (before lying together) w/o the consent of parents are invalid.
And
2) after the lying together of these children, the marriage cannot be broken by the parents.
I’m having a hard time putting these two together in my mind. How can one hold that the consent of parents is essential to a valid marriage while also holding that if the children lay together, the marriage is made valid? What exactly is the the essential act that validates a marriage? If its the consent of the two parties, then how can 1 be true? If it includes the consent of parents, how can 2 be true?
1) marriages contracted between children (before lying together) w/o the consent of parents are invalid.
And
2) after the lying together of these children, the marriage cannot be broken by the parents.
I’m having a hard time putting these two together in my mind. How can one hold that the consent of parents is essential to a valid marriage while also holding that if the children lay together, the marriage is made valid? What exactly is the the essential act that validates a marriage? If its the consent of the two parties, then how can 1 be true? If it includes the consent of parents, how can 2 be true?