Kim G
Puritan Board Junior
I need help from some experienced parents!
I try to get my four-month-old boy to bed around 9 PM. (Hubby works second shift so we all have later hours at home . . . bedtime for us is 1 AM). Between 9 PM and 9 AM, he wakes up four or more times crying until he is fed (formula). This is consistent with his daytime feedings--one 4 ounce bottle every 3 hours. But then he also wakes up other times because he'll roll on top of his arm or claw his face until it bleeds. Then he starts crying and has to be comforted again.
I have had a really rough time of it. I had surgery a month after he was born and slept with him on a mattress on the floor in his room because getting up was too painful. Now he won't sleep unless I'm right next to him. I have always struggled with insomnia, and now when I finally get to sleep after a couple of hours, I have to wake up to take care of a wailing infant. I'm on anti-anxiety meds now just to keep from going crazy.
My doctor said to put my son in his crib, turn on a loud noise in my room to drown out his cries, and just sleep for eight hours every night.
Does anyone have any advice for my baby or for me? I'm so tired that I know things have to change, but I'm also so tired that enforcing anything is hard because my emotions are out of whack.
I try to get my four-month-old boy to bed around 9 PM. (Hubby works second shift so we all have later hours at home . . . bedtime for us is 1 AM). Between 9 PM and 9 AM, he wakes up four or more times crying until he is fed (formula). This is consistent with his daytime feedings--one 4 ounce bottle every 3 hours. But then he also wakes up other times because he'll roll on top of his arm or claw his face until it bleeds. Then he starts crying and has to be comforted again.
I have had a really rough time of it. I had surgery a month after he was born and slept with him on a mattress on the floor in his room because getting up was too painful. Now he won't sleep unless I'm right next to him. I have always struggled with insomnia, and now when I finally get to sleep after a couple of hours, I have to wake up to take care of a wailing infant. I'm on anti-anxiety meds now just to keep from going crazy.
My doctor said to put my son in his crib, turn on a loud noise in my room to drown out his cries, and just sleep for eight hours every night.
Does anyone have any advice for my baby or for me? I'm so tired that I know things have to change, but I'm also so tired that enforcing anything is hard because my emotions are out of whack.