I saw a thread in here from over ten years ago asking where the single Christian women are. I thought I would start a similar thread but for gals seeking dudes. Where are the single men, and why can't singles find each other in the church? Is it just because our churches are so small? Sometimes I hear that people met their spouse before becoming Reformed, and I think I may have to de-Reform, find a male mate, then re-Reform in order to achieve marriage. I will not actually do this. It is way too much work. What can be done? Alas, who knows!