reaganmarsh
Puritan Board Senior
You've been given a lot of good counsel in this thread, brother.
My wife worked as a schoolteacher FT while I was in my FT on-campus MATS program, because we didn't have children at that point. I also worked FT (bi-vo minister). When we learned she was expecting our first child, she completed her contract and has been a stay-at-home, homeschooling mom ever since. That's what she's always wanted. I took extra classes to graduate early with that degree, and switched to PT online courses during MDiv studies.
Seminary took me forever, but I'd not change how we did it. My wife is happy and our kids are prospering. That's worth every sacrifice. And I shudder to think what life would be if we had incurred student loan debt. So, based on what you've written, I think Rev. Greco states your choices very well.
I'd counsel you to stay put, marry early if you burn, let her finish her degree, and start online seminary coursework/hit the languages hard in the interim period. Then, having the first year of marriage under your belt, and a good start on your studies, make the move to WTS (hopefully, once you've secured a good job!), entrusting the whole to the Lord (Pr 16.9).
A year goes by so quickly!
My wife worked as a schoolteacher FT while I was in my FT on-campus MATS program, because we didn't have children at that point. I also worked FT (bi-vo minister). When we learned she was expecting our first child, she completed her contract and has been a stay-at-home, homeschooling mom ever since. That's what she's always wanted. I took extra classes to graduate early with that degree, and switched to PT online courses during MDiv studies.
Seminary took me forever, but I'd not change how we did it. My wife is happy and our kids are prospering. That's worth every sacrifice. And I shudder to think what life would be if we had incurred student loan debt. So, based on what you've written, I think Rev. Greco states your choices very well.
I'd counsel you to stay put, marry early if you burn, let her finish her degree, and start online seminary coursework/hit the languages hard in the interim period. Then, having the first year of marriage under your belt, and a good start on your studies, make the move to WTS (hopefully, once you've secured a good job!), entrusting the whole to the Lord (Pr 16.9).
A year goes by so quickly!