Blev3rd;
I can tell you what not to do...if you are out by a chocolate factory and they are having a sale on chocolate...do not buy her $30 worth of chocolate. (my husband did that one day...I'm not THAT fond of chocolate, so for me, while I appreciated the gesture..I would have appreciated it more if he hadn't spent so much money or bought so much)
If you tell her your going to do something for her...if it's within your power..do not make her wait..and wait..get up and do it..or let her know when you will be able to get to it..and then make sure you get to it by then...in other words keep your word..
If you have small children, make arraignments for a sitter for over night, or even just a few hours, so that you can take her out..
Take her on a picnic, or take the kids out for a few hours and give her some alone time..
my husband planted me a garden..
many times he starts dinner while I am doing things for the kids..and then I just have to make the sides and stuff to go w/ it..
he talks to me about his day...good and bad..without my having to ask..how was work today?
If he's going to be late--he calls to let me know.
he doesn't make plans without first talking to me, to find out if we have anything else planned.
He'll help w/ laundry..he knows I hate folding socks..so he'll fold all the socks..
Something I did for him...after our lawn mower broke, I hired someone to come mow the yard, so that he doesn't have to..we have yet to buy a new lawn mower, he really likes not having to worry about needing to mow the yard..after having worked all week..
I can tell you what not to do...if you are out by a chocolate factory and they are having a sale on chocolate...do not buy her $30 worth of chocolate. (my husband did that one day...I'm not THAT fond of chocolate, so for me, while I appreciated the gesture..I would have appreciated it more if he hadn't spent so much money or bought so much)
If you tell her your going to do something for her...if it's within your power..do not make her wait..and wait..get up and do it..or let her know when you will be able to get to it..and then make sure you get to it by then...in other words keep your word..
If you have small children, make arraignments for a sitter for over night, or even just a few hours, so that you can take her out..
Take her on a picnic, or take the kids out for a few hours and give her some alone time..
my husband planted me a garden..
many times he starts dinner while I am doing things for the kids..and then I just have to make the sides and stuff to go w/ it..
he talks to me about his day...good and bad..without my having to ask..how was work today?
If he's going to be late--he calls to let me know.
he doesn't make plans without first talking to me, to find out if we have anything else planned.
He'll help w/ laundry..he knows I hate folding socks..so he'll fold all the socks..
Something I did for him...after our lawn mower broke, I hired someone to come mow the yard, so that he doesn't have to..we have yet to buy a new lawn mower, he really likes not having to worry about needing to mow the yard..after having worked all week..