Mathetes
Puritan Board Freshman
I've been thinking about this for a while. Many times we hear about unconditional love, and some people assume that such a thing exists, but I wonder. Not necessarily in reference to God, but just in general.
Anyone who's watched the Animal Planet channel on TV will know that people who are really attached to animals (I think some of these tend to be lacking somewhat in self-esteem) will talk about how animals love us unconditionally. But is this really true? I think they just mean that animals love us regardless of whether we're thin or fat, beautiful or ugly, short or tall. In fact, even bypassing the issue of whether animals really love us or whether this is an anthropomorphism, I don't think animals love us unconditionally. If you stopped feeding your dog, and you mistreated him, I think his "love" for you would turn sour pretty quick.
Do people love unconditionally? I don't believe so. I mean, I love my wife tremendously, but if I somehow found out that she was a serial killer, I'd have to re-evaluate my feelings about her. Most of us, I think, love people to the degree that they reflect values that we admire. If someone we love fails to meet certain conditions to a serious enough degree - maybe they become unrepentant blasphers, or persistently untrustworthy, or somesuch - would we still love them? There's an interesting dimension to that as well, since it's assumed that we are to love sinners, that's why we preach the gospel to them. But even on those grounds, if someone continues in their sinful ways, do we shake the dust from our feet and move on?
Then there's the subject of God and unconditional love - most of us, as Reformed would say that God only loves the elect: that saving and regenerative love is only expressed to those who come to Him in faith. But yet, is there maybe a sense that God loves even the worst sinner as a work of His creation? Now if true, this would be no more significant than saying that God loves a tree or a moose. Still, it's a kind of love nonetheless, no?
Anyways, just food for thought...
Anyone who's watched the Animal Planet channel on TV will know that people who are really attached to animals (I think some of these tend to be lacking somewhat in self-esteem) will talk about how animals love us unconditionally. But is this really true? I think they just mean that animals love us regardless of whether we're thin or fat, beautiful or ugly, short or tall. In fact, even bypassing the issue of whether animals really love us or whether this is an anthropomorphism, I don't think animals love us unconditionally. If you stopped feeding your dog, and you mistreated him, I think his "love" for you would turn sour pretty quick.
Do people love unconditionally? I don't believe so. I mean, I love my wife tremendously, but if I somehow found out that she was a serial killer, I'd have to re-evaluate my feelings about her. Most of us, I think, love people to the degree that they reflect values that we admire. If someone we love fails to meet certain conditions to a serious enough degree - maybe they become unrepentant blasphers, or persistently untrustworthy, or somesuch - would we still love them? There's an interesting dimension to that as well, since it's assumed that we are to love sinners, that's why we preach the gospel to them. But even on those grounds, if someone continues in their sinful ways, do we shake the dust from our feet and move on?
Then there's the subject of God and unconditional love - most of us, as Reformed would say that God only loves the elect: that saving and regenerative love is only expressed to those who come to Him in faith. But yet, is there maybe a sense that God loves even the worst sinner as a work of His creation? Now if true, this would be no more significant than saying that God loves a tree or a moose. Still, it's a kind of love nonetheless, no?
Anyways, just food for thought...