If your looking for something for your kids to read, Boundaries in Dating by Cloud and Townsend is pretty good, as it teaches pretty good Biblical Boundaries.
I don't know if this helps, but you might want to check out the resource messages at Sovereign Grace's website. I ran a search for "Parent" on it here.
Our eldest is 10.5 now. What was strange to me was asking other parents about the coming storm (puberty/teenage years) and hearing that the 10-12 year old time is often more challenging.
We've encountered a number of new attitudes from our eldest, she is almost adult-like in some of her thinking, and still a little girl in other ways - it's odd to see.
PS - Bobbi, I don't even want to think about dating at this point, please don't scare me with that sort of talk.