In addition, it makes sence to prepare for a career as a single woman, because we don't know what God has in store for us. All do not marry. Husbands can get sick or die. My daughter married 6 years ago, she stopped working when pregnant with her first child. Her husband started spending a lot of time in bed, was cold, had headaches got sicker and sicker though the doctors get saying it was depression. He lost his job. They lived with us, and my husband and I didn't want my daughter to leave her baby to go to work. Eventually, it was discovered that his had a problem with his thyroid, finally it had to be removed. It was hard to find the right adjustment for his medication, and there were other issues. They have two sons, my daughter nows works part time and has completed 2 years of college (mostly online). Her goal is to get her master's degree and teach on-line classes from home. My son-in-law health has improved, though he still gets sick frequently. He is starting a course tomorrow to learn to install cable tv's and we are praying that he is sucessful. This isn't how they planned their marriage but adjustments sometimes have to be made. Though my daughter isn't home all day the boys are always with family and we work together to makthis e things work. I work and have for many years, I also didn't plan it that way but God has been good and my daughters have always been my priority. God bless stay-at-home moms, but when life is difficult God still blesses. Women should work hard at whatever they do and do it as unto the Lord. It's easy to say "this is how a family should look and operate", but we need to trust God even when things go differently than according to our plans.