Many years ago we asked my sister and her husband if they would care for our children if dh and I both died. It has been weighing on my mind a bit lately, as I've been discovering how deeply involved they have become in the "Word of Faith" movement. A few years back they actually attended a "school of prophesy" of some sort in Kansas City, MO (I was told they were going to a Kansas City "Bible School", and only recently realized what that school really was.)
They have never lived near us (and they move roughly every 2 years) but now they are planning to move to Redding, CA to become involved in the Bethel Church "School of Supernatural Ministry". They are not open about their faith except in vague ways - "pray for this or that request", general statements of belief that God will carry them through troubles, etc. Nothing that raises a red flag. On the other hand, they have never in the past 5 years mentioned their church, and I wonder if they even attend a church. They know we are Presbyterians and so I think they try to keep quiet about a lot, thinking we would not "approve" and probably wanting to keep peace.
That's probably more than you need to know, but I do have concern over the wisdom of having them care for our (6) children and raise them in that environment if God should see fit to "take dh and I home".
What do you think? How would you go about selecting someone? Would you consider close friends who share the same Biblical beliefs over family members? We will have to change our wills once baby #6 is born, so dh and I really need to give this some serious prayer and thought.
They have never lived near us (and they move roughly every 2 years) but now they are planning to move to Redding, CA to become involved in the Bethel Church "School of Supernatural Ministry". They are not open about their faith except in vague ways - "pray for this or that request", general statements of belief that God will carry them through troubles, etc. Nothing that raises a red flag. On the other hand, they have never in the past 5 years mentioned their church, and I wonder if they even attend a church. They know we are Presbyterians and so I think they try to keep quiet about a lot, thinking we would not "approve" and probably wanting to keep peace.
That's probably more than you need to know, but I do have concern over the wisdom of having them care for our (6) children and raise them in that environment if God should see fit to "take dh and I home".
What do you think? How would you go about selecting someone? Would you consider close friends who share the same Biblical beliefs over family members? We will have to change our wills once baby #6 is born, so dh and I really need to give this some serious prayer and thought.