Counselors who know both persons involved and have the whole story would be far more valuable. Everyone has a personal bias in one direction or the other. There are some amazing physicians who are also mommies BTW.This is a conversation that should remain between the man, the woman and her pastor and/or parents. Not strangers on the internets.
I completely agree that their pastors and parents should be active in this discussion. However, many of the folks here, strangers or not, are very wise. Their insights are worth considering, even if just a little. Ultimately Ewen and his girlfriend will need to decide what to do; until then, heeding Scripture's wisdom of seeking many counselors would certainly not be a bad thing. (And I am not speaking of the poll results but of the thoughts of experienced married folk.)