I wasn't sure whay you though, but I believe I needed to reiterate that point. [/quote] I do appreciate your thoughts, but I think I would have needed to given you more details for you to give advice on the specific situation. As it is, I am not soliciting advice, but giving an example so that others can expound on how they would handle it. I agree that peoples lives can be different than they appear, and I also believe to be a pretty good judge of character. Anyway, it is always possible that it isn't as it appears, but I am assuming not. Anyway, I still haven't heard how others interact with ARminains/evangelicals.