BlackCalvinist
Puritan Board Senior
Situation I thought of the other day.....based on a convo I had with a buddy....
Church member A. is single, has struggled with lust for a few years of his walk. Has been through some bad relationships and says that 'saved women don't know how to treat him right'. Has an ex-girlfriend who is NOT a Christian, but has always been there for him as a friend. She says she respects his beliefs, is willing to follow him, etc.... but hasn't moved beyond basic theism as her 'belief system'. They continue to spend time together, he decides to marry her (yes, he's fully aware of 2 Cor. 6:14-18).
He does so because lust is becoming an issue between he and her and he pretty much says he's happy, despite the lack of spiritual connection.
If this man were in your church, would you bring him up on church discipline ?
Other thoughts ?
Church member A. is single, has struggled with lust for a few years of his walk. Has been through some bad relationships and says that 'saved women don't know how to treat him right'. Has an ex-girlfriend who is NOT a Christian, but has always been there for him as a friend. She says she respects his beliefs, is willing to follow him, etc.... but hasn't moved beyond basic theism as her 'belief system'. They continue to spend time together, he decides to marry her (yes, he's fully aware of 2 Cor. 6:14-18).
He does so because lust is becoming an issue between he and her and he pretty much says he's happy, despite the lack of spiritual connection.
If this man were in your church, would you bring him up on church discipline ?
Other thoughts ?