I see to come across a common refrain of from people that their or somebody else's marriage 'didn't work out' or that they were better off friends, or they were too young and rushed into it or something like that. It honestly baffles me to hear that. No doubt it probably largely stemmed from lersonality differences and/or different interests. The latter, 'compatibility' seems to the catch phrase for marriages and dating today, along with havings lots of things in common, though I guess not without some warrant but, What would you tell such people and what advice would you give to such couples? I am curious as to your opinions and advice on the matter.