Leave it Don to stir the pot! However, Don is simply trying to answer the OP and not press a particular stance. I agree with him in a way. The OP as I understand it is basically a question: "Can we have unity w/o agreement on LA?" I say, "Absolutely." I think that eventually disagreement in this area might become a problem but no two Christians are ever going to agree on absolutely everything. In regards to the Lord's Supper, even the Westminster Divines could not agree on whether we should sit "about it" or "at it".
I agree with Don in that both views can be exegeted from scripture for a time. Eventually one comes to the doctrine of predestination and that ruins the argument for UA. I think unity dealbreakers are those where someone's postition is based on editing or adding to the Bible. Such as with the doctrines of male headship, fornication, authority/sufficiency of Scripture etc.
I remember pastor Morecraft III saying that when he preaches to groups who do not know him, he does not come right out and say that he is a Calvinist but he knows that if he preaches truth, that Calvinism will be heard. If we all stick to truth then our unity will guide us all into all truth.
I agree with Don in that both views can be exegeted from scripture for a time. Eventually one comes to the doctrine of predestination and that ruins the argument for UA. I think unity dealbreakers are those where someone's postition is based on editing or adding to the Bible. Such as with the doctrines of male headship, fornication, authority/sufficiency of Scripture etc.
I remember pastor Morecraft III saying that when he preaches to groups who do not know him, he does not come right out and say that he is a Calvinist but he knows that if he preaches truth, that Calvinism will be heard. If we all stick to truth then our unity will guide us all into all truth.