ZackF
Puritan Board Professor
You can google and find articles about this topic (yes I've done it... a bit neurotic I suppose). My wife and I have had several fun conversations about this. I thought it would fun, interesting and therapeutic for PBers to chime in. This subject has at least a loose connection to our faith as we are to speak the truth. I think some of these sayings, whether people intend it or not, can be passive-aggressive or worse. If this belongs in another forum I defer to the mods.
The first one to come to mind is:
"Reach Out" ie. "Please reach out if you have any questions about my marketing presentation."
I'm old enough to remember the AT&T ads from thirty years ago and that's not what I'm talking about.
I am talking about how 'reach out' has become so ubiquitous in the corporate world the past ten years most don't realize how ridiculous and even pompous it comes across. Is someone who pitched a proposal to his own company's ad team so important that folks are 'reaching out' to contact him? Is it that difficult to 'reach' him? Don't be surprised if the guy in the next cubicle asks you 'reach out' to him if you need to borrow a stapler when you can't find yours.
Please save 'reach out' when you need to call the POTUS or a governor save you from the chair. Saying you're 'reaching out' is also appropriate when asking your long lost first cousin for a liver transplant.
"I know, right?" ie. "It is hot in here Jane. I wish they'd turn up the AC." Jane replies, "I know, right?"
This cheese-grater-across-the-knuckles phrase probably peaked in 2014/15. It still comes up in IMs/SMS more than vocally now. Down but not out. If I make an assertion, suggestion, or declaration first then assume I think it is 'right.' Please just say that you agree.
"Leverage _______" ie. "Leverage the promotion to make the sale."
Inflated corporate gab if there was any. Unless you are freeing stuck lug bolts or buying a company you cannot afford leave leveraging to the levers. Otherwise you risk sinister connotations like extortion, theft, blackmail or even worse.
"Faith Journey" ie. "That's just not where I am in my faith journey."
Where is he then? Chances are he can't tell you. I hate this one and find it creepy. Maybe the phrase doesn't merit hatred. I read or hear it and I think of guy in a coffee shop trying to get somewhere with a girl he shouldn't. It smacks of faux-spirituality. Is there a solid Reformed author that has ever employed this phrase?
Those are a few. I hope others drop in. Maybe I post some more.
The first one to come to mind is:
"Reach Out" ie. "Please reach out if you have any questions about my marketing presentation."
I'm old enough to remember the AT&T ads from thirty years ago and that's not what I'm talking about.
I am talking about how 'reach out' has become so ubiquitous in the corporate world the past ten years most don't realize how ridiculous and even pompous it comes across. Is someone who pitched a proposal to his own company's ad team so important that folks are 'reaching out' to contact him? Is it that difficult to 'reach' him? Don't be surprised if the guy in the next cubicle asks you 'reach out' to him if you need to borrow a stapler when you can't find yours.
Please save 'reach out' when you need to call the POTUS or a governor save you from the chair. Saying you're 'reaching out' is also appropriate when asking your long lost first cousin for a liver transplant.
"I know, right?" ie. "It is hot in here Jane. I wish they'd turn up the AC." Jane replies, "I know, right?"
This cheese-grater-across-the-knuckles phrase probably peaked in 2014/15. It still comes up in IMs/SMS more than vocally now. Down but not out. If I make an assertion, suggestion, or declaration first then assume I think it is 'right.' Please just say that you agree.
"Leverage _______" ie. "Leverage the promotion to make the sale."
Inflated corporate gab if there was any. Unless you are freeing stuck lug bolts or buying a company you cannot afford leave leveraging to the levers. Otherwise you risk sinister connotations like extortion, theft, blackmail or even worse.
"Faith Journey" ie. "That's just not where I am in my faith journey."
Where is he then? Chances are he can't tell you. I hate this one and find it creepy. Maybe the phrase doesn't merit hatred. I read or hear it and I think of guy in a coffee shop trying to get somewhere with a girl he shouldn't. It smacks of faux-spirituality. Is there a solid Reformed author that has ever employed this phrase?
Those are a few. I hope others drop in. Maybe I post some more.