have yall ever had these sorts of fights with family over doctrinal issues?
my brother comes over every once in a while to pick up his two sons and we tend to end up in arguments. these arguments used to be about election but lately they are about the issue of fruit. he goes to the church i used to attend which is Dispensational. and has major ties to dallas theological seminary. he takes the same stance as zane hodges - whereas I, being reformed, naturally lean towards Johnny Mac's position (John MacArthur) on the issue.
the arguments get so frustrating and ugly - he interrupts, he mocks etc. i've "lost it" twice lately in these discussions where I've said to him - "is this why you come over? to argue like this?" and "what is your problem" etc. b/c he says some really hurtful infuriating things to me. its so easy to just leave the Lord out of these things and just go at it with your flesh...argh...
do any of you deal with this sort of thing? what do you do?
my brother comes over every once in a while to pick up his two sons and we tend to end up in arguments. these arguments used to be about election but lately they are about the issue of fruit. he goes to the church i used to attend which is Dispensational. and has major ties to dallas theological seminary. he takes the same stance as zane hodges - whereas I, being reformed, naturally lean towards Johnny Mac's position (John MacArthur) on the issue.
the arguments get so frustrating and ugly - he interrupts, he mocks etc. i've "lost it" twice lately in these discussions where I've said to him - "is this why you come over? to argue like this?" and "what is your problem" etc. b/c he says some really hurtful infuriating things to me. its so easy to just leave the Lord out of these things and just go at it with your flesh...argh...
do any of you deal with this sort of thing? what do you do?