mrhartley85
Puritan Board Freshman
How did you get her on board?
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How did you get her on board?
It varies, but oftentimes they will have two worship services on the Lord's day and then a mid-week prayer meeting (which I suppose functions as a more formal bible study mid-week). In some churches (including my own), we will semi-frequently get together for other occasions, such as psalm sings or a church picnic. Some churches will have their own home bible studies also, depending on interest, size of the church, etc.That is one thing I was wondering about. We really enjoy having a home bible study mid week where we get together with the same families each week. It helps us to build close relationships.
Do most reformed Presbyterian churches only meet once a week?
It wasn’t really a matter of getting her on board. We started having questions at the same time, and I initiated the conversation about considering a change in views. So, we studied the Scriptures for about two months together, prayed together. She was thirsty to understand, because there were some things in Scripture that were not making sense to her, but made great sense after our change in views.
The Lord does it. Before November I thought it was an impossible view, and she wasn’t open until about then either. It was in His providence.
Frankly, it should be hard to leave a church.
You might consider attending special events (vacation Bible school?) or worship services that don't conflict with your own as a way to become familiar with nearby Presbyterian churches.
In answer to your earlier question, the OPC is fairly consistent in its teaching and worship. The PCA can have similar churches, or might shoot for a generalized evangelical atmosphere. Don't go near a PCUSA congregation. The few solid folks remaining have been mostly driven out. That's my experience with membership in these three denominations.
I've had the pleasure of visiting an ARP church across a number of years that was engaging and welcoming but not always sharp on the regulative principle.
It varies, but oftentimes they will have two worship services on the Lord's day and then a mid-week prayer meeting (which I suppose functions as a more formal bible study mid-week). In some churches (including my own), we will semi-frequently get together for other occasions, such as psalm sings or a church picnic. Some churches will have their own home bible studies also, depending on interest, size of the church, etc.
However, you don't have to only meet with friends on church sanctioned occasions. Some of the families in my church will meet for other activities or invite each other over for dinner or something. Since we are all Christians, we cannot help but have Christian fellowship along with whatever other social activities we do; indeed, a psalm sing with dinner guests before or after an ordinary dinner (or being asked to join in on family worship after dinner) is fairly routine in the families of some churches. Certainly, if the home bible study does not conflict with prayer meeting attendance at whatever Presbyterian church you attend, I don't see why you could not keep going to the home bible study (if you find it useful, edifying, not likely to seduce you or your children to any of their errors, etc.). It will be important to keep in good communication with the elders of whatever Presbyterian church you join (this is important in anything anyway), so that they can keep a watch on your and your familiy's souls (I do not mean you need to tell them and ask them if you can do a certain activity; I just mean let them into your spiritual life in the course of you all getting to know each other). They might also have some other ideas of how you can keep in touch with your friends in the baptist church (my own idea would be: invite your friends for dinner!).
What was your guys’ study like that God uses to bring you both onto the same page?
Baptized or not, this is your duty; baptized or not, it is God and God alone who saves.
Are there some within these listed in the NAPARC that could be more liberal than others?
Do Reformed Presbyterian churches only meet once a week or is it typical to have a home group mid week?
I would probably stay if they are teaching truth and you guys have a great relationship with the church members.
Some really great advice here. Thank you.
That is one thing I was wondering about. We really enjoy having a home bible study mid week where we get together with the same families each week. It helps us to build close relationships.
Do most reformed Presbyterian churches only meet once a week?
I don't disagree with you at all that to go against conscience is neither right nor safe--the OP should prayerfully seek a church that will not abuse his conscience. I wished only to caution him that baptizing the children would not effect any change at all in them--he spoke of "different presuppositions".Ben:
It is good that confessional Baptists and Presbyterians agree in the way that you note above: all agree that it is our duty to rear our children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord and that it is God who, from first to last, is our only Savior.
Presbyterians, however, believe that those, all those, outwardly in the covenant of grace (either by profession of faith or by virtue of their having been born within it) ought to receive baptism as the sign and seal of that covenant.
The reason that I can consent to what you say with regard to "baptized or not" when it comes to our infants and young children is that I believe such are in the covenant of grace even if the sign of that covenant (baptism) is not applied to them. But I firmly believe that that sign should be applied to them in obedience to the Lord's command. Jordan has come to believe the same and this is not a matter of indifference. He needs to be in a place with those that believe and practice the same.
The church in which he presently resides does not believe and practice infant baptism. They should be respected in their beliefs and practices and he should not ask them to allow him to have his child(ren) baptized elsewhere. Nor should he ask a Presbyterian church to baptize his child(ren) while his family remains in a Baptist church. This is ecclesiastical anarchy, unfair to all the corporate bodies involved, as well as to his own family. One needs to be, in this regard, with those of like conviction. This is why we have Presbyterian and Baptist churches.
We rejoice that we can agree as we do, but we must not pretend as if these things don't matter. They do. You do not believe that you should baptize your children. You think it wrong. I understand and respect that, though I differ. I think that I should baptize my children and would think it wrong not to. This is why I am a Presbyterian and you are a Baptist.
Jordan needs to re-locate in due time to some church that will afford him the opportunity to do what he believes that he must: baptize his children, who are as much outward partakers of the covenant of grace by virtue of their birth as is anyone who professes his faith.
Peace,
Alan
I wished only to caution him that baptizing the children would not effect any change at all in them--he spoke of "different presuppositions".