Humble yourself

The Shepherd's Grace

Puritan Board Freshman
There are multiple verses stating to humble yourself (1peter 5:6) etc. I have come across arminians who claim you can humble yourself without God.

They then state humility is why one chooses God over another. I have learned this seems to be their best attempt against the imfamous question: why does one person have faith, and another does not, given they both heard the gospel?

Any ideas how to refute this? How does one prove humility comes from God?

God bless