Ryan&Amber2013
Puritan Board Senior
Over time I've become much more aware to a reality in my life that is very concerning and I can't find an answer to the problem.
It seems weird, but it really appears that very often on a daily basis, my life circumstances are intentionally designed to bring me confusion, pain, and frustration.
Here is a petty but real example today: Leaving work I felt hot and uncomfortable because I was wearing a sweater. I got in the car for my half hour commute and realized I wanted to take my sweater off. Normally on my ride I hit lots of frustrating stops like red lights and backed-up traffic. So I thought when I got to a stop I would take it off. It just so happened today that my ride home was completely smooth without the normal traffic frustrations, and I rode home with the sweater on the whole way because I didn't have the opportunity to take it off. I started thinking "because I'm uncomfortable in this sweater I now probably won't have an opportunity to take it off." And I was right. But on a normal day I'm catching all the stops I don't want. So often it feels like the universe is set against me in strange ways that are either crazy coincidences or plotted design.
Stuff like this happens daily to me. There can be no cars in sight on a mile long road I'm about to turn on, and as soon as I do there's the one car coming right at me that I somehow didn't see? Why couldn't it have been 100 feet back or 100 feet forward to where it wasn't about to collide into me? Stuff like this is normal for me in every part of life.
I can't comprehend how to interpret life this way. I know the biblical answer is that God is sovereign and we don't know but can trust it's for our good, but the experiencial answer is hard to rationalize. Can anyone relate to this?
It seems weird, but it really appears that very often on a daily basis, my life circumstances are intentionally designed to bring me confusion, pain, and frustration.
Here is a petty but real example today: Leaving work I felt hot and uncomfortable because I was wearing a sweater. I got in the car for my half hour commute and realized I wanted to take my sweater off. Normally on my ride I hit lots of frustrating stops like red lights and backed-up traffic. So I thought when I got to a stop I would take it off. It just so happened today that my ride home was completely smooth without the normal traffic frustrations, and I rode home with the sweater on the whole way because I didn't have the opportunity to take it off. I started thinking "because I'm uncomfortable in this sweater I now probably won't have an opportunity to take it off." And I was right. But on a normal day I'm catching all the stops I don't want. So often it feels like the universe is set against me in strange ways that are either crazy coincidences or plotted design.
Stuff like this happens daily to me. There can be no cars in sight on a mile long road I'm about to turn on, and as soon as I do there's the one car coming right at me that I somehow didn't see? Why couldn't it have been 100 feet back or 100 feet forward to where it wasn't about to collide into me? Stuff like this is normal for me in every part of life.
I can't comprehend how to interpret life this way. I know the biblical answer is that God is sovereign and we don't know but can trust it's for our good, but the experiencial answer is hard to rationalize. Can anyone relate to this?