As explained in the prayer forum, share your gospel encouragements in brief statements or links to material for this fellow.
From Chris B: "I once thought that I was saved, but it turns out I am not. I have no access to God, nor do I sense that the Holy Spirit is at work in me, and my prayers are not being heard. All I know is that I am headed for hell, and I am leading my children there. Please ask God to open my eyes to my sin, or that He would do that for my children if I am not one of His elect. Thank you."
From Chris B: "I once thought that I was saved, but it turns out I am not. I have no access to God, nor do I sense that the Holy Spirit is at work in me, and my prayers are not being heard. All I know is that I am headed for hell, and I am leading my children there. Please ask God to open my eyes to my sin, or that He would do that for my children if I am not one of His elect. Thank you."