Caroline
Puritan Board Sophomore
There's no back story to this question, just I wondered today...
How do Reformed people have a funeral for an unbeliever? I have not yet seen one, and I'm curious. I can think of several possible scenarios:
1. Random people call up a Reformed pastor to ask him to do a funeral for their loved one. Would the pastor agree to preach a funeral for strangers who may or may not be believers?
Or a more difficult scenario:
2. Believer asks pastor to preach a funeral for his or her unbelieving parent. How would a pastor tactfully handle that situation?
Or perhaps another awkward situation:
3. Someone who attended the church for a length of time but never made a profession of faith/ was baptized, etc. (for whatever reason, or even just that they were thinking about it but had not yet acted on it). Would you give that person a Christian burial?
So far, we've buried a number of elderly people who had been faithful church members for years and were sent off with all confidence, but I wouldn't think that is always the case.
How do Reformed people have a funeral for an unbeliever? I have not yet seen one, and I'm curious. I can think of several possible scenarios:
1. Random people call up a Reformed pastor to ask him to do a funeral for their loved one. Would the pastor agree to preach a funeral for strangers who may or may not be believers?
Or a more difficult scenario:
2. Believer asks pastor to preach a funeral for his or her unbelieving parent. How would a pastor tactfully handle that situation?
Or perhaps another awkward situation:
3. Someone who attended the church for a length of time but never made a profession of faith/ was baptized, etc. (for whatever reason, or even just that they were thinking about it but had not yet acted on it). Would you give that person a Christian burial?
So far, we've buried a number of elderly people who had been faithful church members for years and were sent off with all confidence, but I wouldn't think that is always the case.