I am wanting some feedback on an issue or maybe it isn't even an issue at all. My wife's parents like to have my family and her brother's family over at their house to have everyone's Christmas together. So we never have Christmas as a family at our own house. This is how my wife was raised it was all over at her grandparents house. I always had my major Christmas at our own house and then we would go over to grandparents with cousins and have maybe 1 or two small presents there. The way my wife does it there is soo much Stuff everywhere it is ridiculous and my children will never have Christmas memories at their own home with our own family it will always be their grandparents. I work an odd schedule and am gone a lot and want them to have memories of our home and family and me and the wife being with them not the grandparents etc... Is this me being selfish and making a deal out of nothing?