The implication was a reminder of the dangers of presuming to add to the Gospel requirement.I never said you anathematized her. I said the anathema comment was out of line. I'm not sure what you were trying to imply by using it.
Again, no she can not. I would ask you to read Calvin in his commentatry on Romans 14 for I believe he is spot on. bwsmith is the wife of an Elder. She is not (or should not be at least) a neophyte in the faith. That's the first point.I think you're wrong, Rich. She CAN be classified as a weaker sister because she was never arguing for abstinence as a rule of God's law. Stop putting words in her mouth. All I have read from her are warnings. Granted she has been firm in her warnings, but who cares? What's wrong with that coming from a grandmother who has experience in life? She's not making her opinions and warnings the law of God, and if she is then you're spot on by rebuking her. I just didn't read it that way.
The second point is that Romans 14 is primarily addressing those who have scruples that were based upon the Mosaic ordinances that they haven't quite shaken off. In other words, the reason the weaker brother in Romans 14 still has a problem eating pork is that he grew up in a time when it was strictly forbidden to eat pork. The person who has come to fully understand his freedom in Christ is to be in a place where they realize that no food or drink can defile. In this case, abstinence has never been a Biblical command that the Jews would then have to "shake off."
Third, even when we allow for broader application, at the very least the "weaker brother" is not permitted to judge what another brother eats or drinks and say that they dishonor the Lord somehow in their doing of it. Paul's point, to a large extent, is "mind your own business" and that if it's a sin for you then be content with your scruples but don't try to put another brother or sister under the yoke of your scruples. Thus, even if I concede bwsmith is the "weaker brother", the Biblical rebuke to "mind her own business" would be appropriate as essentially an attempt to restrict the liberty of others by announcing "...this is unwise behavior...."
I'm not arguing. I'm clarifying. I don't relish this at all honestly. This is why I've repeatedly tried to underline: "I'm concerned about the nature of the Gospel here". I've even said this isn't about eating or drinking fundamentally.This is nothing personal against either Rich or bwsmith. I made my feelings clear in my initial post that both parties seem to be a little off base throughout the course of this thread. If bwsmith claims her opinion is a rule of God's law then I retract what I have said and she is wrong. If not, then I think some have gone too far in their comments. I probably wouldn't have even commented if not for the anathema statement.
I'm not interested in arguing my view on this thread any further.
Do you know what would cause me to back off? If I felt like the parties that I keep reminding about the Gospel would acknowledge that there is a warrant for concern when certain things are said.
At the risk of offending, this is rather the problem with the Federal Vision in one aspect. I'm not saying that bwsmith is agrees with the FV but the common issue here would be when people are drawing conclusions from your words that are Gospel-undermining, it is your responsibility to be clearer and not the responsibility of every hearer to learn how to hear things in the right way. This is why I don't listen to the chorus "We're being misrepresented" by the FV crowd. It's their job, if they believe the Gospel, to start talking like they do.
I want to see if the concern will finally sink in so that I can hear Gospel resonance in this concern.