Arminianism lead to exhaustion but Calvinism leads to apathy?

[nonconformist]

Originally posted by houseparent
I accept the doctrines of grace fully, but it has lead me to be much more apathetic at times than I ever used to be. Arminianism lead me to work like a fool to "get people saved" and thus lead to exhaustion and slight depression when no fruit came from all the confessions I helped lead people in (sinners prayer).

Now I look at the people I used to go crazy trying to "get saved" and think what's the use, they obviously have no call on their heart.

Ugh!

I know it's error on my part but it's still frustrating.

It could be just a shock phase of your new theology,that happened to me a few months ago but has changed recently.Fortunately for me my postmillenial escatology helps tremendously.I wouldnt worry