DMcFadden
Puritanboard Commissioner
Today marks my 34th wedding anniversary.
* Jeanette and I had our first date on April 23, 1971 (after which we were high school sweethearts) and were married on May 25, 1974 (on a 105 degree scorcher in Southern California).
* Since then, we have lived in 7 cities;
* Been blessed with 5 children, 3 daughters-in-law, 1 son-in-law, and 4 grandsons; all of them are Christians (except the babies, we are credo afterall);
* Served in 5 churches (me as associate pastor of 1 and pastor in 2; she in Christian ed and children's ministry in 2); led a very busy Christian retirement home ministry for the past decade (me);
* Completed 10 degrees and certificate programs (between the two of us, with remaining debts to prove it);
* Grieved the loss of two fathers and one mother and have one mom (mine) still alive at 88.
* Officiated at three of my kids weddings (my eldest son did the fourth one);
* Were privileged to educate three of our kids through college, seminary, business school and law school; watched one serve as a pastor, one on the mission field and now teaching in a Christian high school, and one as an attorney -- all walking with the Lord;
* Had one become a prodigal during college and break his parents' hearts (and probably contributed in part to my having three "at fault" automobile accidents in the month he dropped out of college) before his getting married and becoming a more consistent disciple.
* Still have one high school junior at home as a reminder that the childbearing/childrearing years CAN actually stretch to 31.5 years and counting!
* This summer Jeanette turns 54 (still as beautiful as ever) and I will be 55 (no comment).
God has been so very gracious to both of us. Jeanette is the only woman I have ever kissed romantically and my only love. We were blessed to find each other (she transformed me into a human being) and praise the Lord for his incredible providence and kindnesses to us.
On this day of our anniversary, I wanted to proclaim to the world (or at leeast the PB section of it), the blessing of a long marriage to a good and Godly wife.
Our marriage has "worked" because of our belief that marriage is a calling and a covenant, that we must endeavor to cherish and nourish the relationship through all the phases of life, and that we see our commitment to Christ as prior to our covenant with each other.
For some of you who have been married a long time, what are your secrets for a good marriage? Looking back, what made for marital longevity? For the benefit of our younger brothers and sis PBers, what do you think were the keys?
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