Credos tend to look at things from more of an internal perspective. Is so-and-so regenerate? Or at least, do we have good reason to believe so?
We paedos tend to emphasize external aspects somewhat more. God makes a covenant with professing believers and their households under their rule. Both adults and children in the covenant can apostatize, but the children, like their parents, are expected to keep the covenant they are raised in. Who is and is not truly regenerate is not something we can see (although there are fruits).
That's one of the main differences, though undoubtedly there are others. I am somewhat overgeneralizing to highlight the difference in emphasis that exists.

Originally Posted by
steadfast7
Hey brothers,
when it comes to Paedo vs Credo baptism, what would you say is the main point of contention that creates the impasse we see? In other words, what's the ONE issue, that if resolved, would end the debate once for all and put everyone on the same side?
You are assuming at the beginning that the issue hasn't been resolved. I think most of us (paedos and credos) are so bold as to believe it has been resolved.
One need only think of predestination to realize that an issue can be thoroughly resolved, yet not embraced by all.
Austin Williamson
Electrical engineering student at Texas State University
Member of Church of the Cross (PCA)
San Marcos, TX
Let us, then, as we would show ourselves to be godly, keep close to the rule of worship, and in the things of Jehovah go no further than we can say, 'It is written'.
~Rev. Thomas Watson, The Godly Man's Picture
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