Dear Pastor,
You accuse me of lacking charity over something that shouldn't be taken as offensive if one
correctly understands the terms employed, and in doing so are yourself being uncharitable. Regardless of "catchiness" of a term, it's irrelevant if said term is misleading in the context of its misuse (in other words, the term
credobaptist is not misleading in itself, it's only misleading when a Baptist uses it to distinguish himself from Reformed Paedobaptists). It's not appropriate to accuse one of lacking charity because of the
right distinction of terminology. When I say one is "objecting out of ignorance," that shouldn't be taken as an insult either. I didn't say, "objecting out of
stupidity," as there's a large difference between being
stupid and being
ignorant. Once a person understands the meaning of
antipaedobaptist, and how it is
not a derogatory term, then their taking offense is no longer valid. At that point, they're no longer
ignorant but informed. Ergo, feeling insulted by it is unwarranted and unprovoked.
On the contrary, you imputing a lack of charity on my part with baseless grounds
is uncharitable, technically speaking. I don't mind it, though, and simply state it since you've brought it up. While
paedobaptist is not an all inclusive identification of the Reformed doctrine of baptism, it does not claim to be
exclusive, where as you seem to be arguing that I should just accept
credobaptist as meaning baptism of believer's only. So I should accept something that's not entirely accurate because someone chooses to take offense over something on baseless foundation?

"Paedobaptist" is not intended to be all inclusive and certainly not restrictive. Neither does the term "Credobaptist" lend itself to the inclusion of
only believers, just that it identifies one
kind of baptism. And that's fine, but that makes those of us who believe in Reformed Paedobaptism just as much Credobaptist as any Baptists out there since we do, in fact, believe and practice, the baptism of professing believers.
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