What's common is a misunderstanding of how the "five points," that is the doctrines of grace, are logically and necessarily biblically dependent on one another and related to one another.
Often, it begins with not understanding the "T" total depravity- that the fall comprehensively affected every aspect of man's being, mind, will, emotions, body such that man has the moral inability to seek God in a saving way.
Therefore, only a change of the constituent nature of a human being, a miracle done first by God causes a person to be free to savingly believe.
"What is Reformed Theology?" by RC Sproul might be helpful as it reviews this in detail.
http://www.ligonier.org/store/what-i...ogy-paperback/
Note also at the bottom of the resources page, a book No Longer a 3 Point Calvinist. I have not read that book, but it might be helpful along the same lines.
Scott
PCA
North Carolina
Post Tenebras Lux; "And the seventh angel sounded; and there were great voices in heaven, saying, The kingdoms of this world are become the kingdoms of our Lord, and of his Christ; and he shall reign for ever and ever." - Revelation 11:15
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Originally Posted by
Chaplainintraining
Yes, they reject "L," but it also seems that they redefine the other letters as well.
I see. I guess, as it is often the case, it ends up being an entirely different flower

Reminds me of a black widow rose. It is called a rose, but it is not that pretty and smells horrible.
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Originally Posted by
Chaplainintraining
Yes, they reject "L," but it also seems that they redefine the other letters as well.
Often, but not always, it is difficulty with the "U" and "L" based on not understanding the "T," and not having the systematic theology of the doctrines of grace. That's why it is so incredibly powerful when one understands, really understands that God is indeed sovereign.
Scott
PCA
North Carolina
Post Tenebras Lux; "And the seventh angel sounded; and there were great voices in heaven, saying, The kingdoms of this world are become the kingdoms of our Lord, and of his Christ; and he shall reign for ever and ever." - Revelation 11:15
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