I think the subject must be approached from a different direction. Here is an excerpt of Dr. Clark's wonderful essay: "The Israel of God".
.....Israel Astray
Israel was not, however, God's natural Son. That much was evident in the wilderness, in Canaan and finally in the ejection when God changed the name of his "son" Israel to "Lo Ammi, not my people" (Hos 1.9-10)
God disinherited his adopted, temporary, national "son" Israel as a national people precisely because God never intended to have a permanent earthly, national people. After the captivity, they had largely fulfilled their role in the history of salvation. As a sign of this fact, the Glory-Spirit departed from the temple. This is because their chief function was to serve as a type and shadow of God's natural Son, Jesus the Messiah (Heb 10.1-4).
Jesus the Israel of God
It is the argument of this essay that Jesus Christ is the true Israel of God and that everyone who is united to him by grace alone, through faith alone becomes, by virtue of that union, the true Israel of God. This means that it is wrong headed to look for, expect, hope for or desire a reconstitution of national Israel in the future. The New Covenant church is not something which God instituted until he could recreate a national people in Palestine, but rather, God only had a national people temporarily (from Moses to Christ) as a prelude to and foreshadowing of the creation of the New Covenant in which the ethnic distinctions which existed under Moses were fulfilled and abolished (Ephesians 2.11-22; Col 2.8-3.11).
Read the rest, in context: http://www.wscal.edu/clark/israel.php
It is important to use the categories Holy Scripture does. National Israel is not the "bride" of Christ; National Israel is not the "real" son, Jesus is. The idea of "divorce" perhaps truncates the fact of Israel's betrayal of the the covenant (they have been exiled just like Adam & Eve were driven out of the land.) There is more to the idea of divorce; curses for disobeying the covenant are also part of the deal. Everything must be considered in light of the covenantal relationship God imposes on His people.
Just some of my thoughts when I hear dispensational error.

Robin
Robin
Christ Reformed Church, Anaheim, CA
Laity, under the care of Pastor, Kim Riddlebarger
Heidelberg, Ursinus, Belgic Confessions; Canons of Dordt
Revelation 14:2
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