
Originally Posted by
LeeJUk
How do you know when God wants you to attempt to date/court a girl?
With great difficulty, particularly if you strongly want to date/court the girl.

Originally Posted by
LeeJUk
Theres just this one girl who keeps coming up in my conversations today and like it's been this entire day when I think about it. Just bombarded with her in conversations with other christians, my pastor when we were in the car, recommends I be with her without me mentioning it, when I came home tonight, a family member starts talking about her without me mentioning her...
Provided the lady in question is biblically qualified to be a Christian wife, I think the decision is something for you and the lady to make as you get to know each other. One caveat: be particularly cautious in situations where one of the two of you does not want to pursue the relationship and the other has a "God told me that this is the one" attitude.
On the other hand, one strong indicator in my pre-marital situation was this: normally a quite selfish sort, I was surprised to find myself wanting to do things for the Orchid Lady - to a quite remarkable extent. If you find yourself enjoying serving the lady, that's a very good sign.
In Christ's love and service
Mr. Tim Cunningham,
BMus. (Trombone Performance), University of Toronto
Dip. CS, Regent College, Vancouver
Member, First Baptist Church
Vancouver, BC
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I once sat in darkness, when all the light I'd waited for was gone.
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– John Deacon -
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