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Old 05-03-2008, 01:11 AM
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Earrings on Men

Once it became culturally OK for men to wear earrings (well, at least in California!), I've been astounded at how many older men - guys in their 60s and 70s - started wearing them.

It's almost as if they've secretly waited their whole lives to be able to wear earrings.

Strange...
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Old 05-03-2008, 01:16 AM
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I wear 'em, but I'm not in my 60s or 70s.
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Old 05-03-2008, 01:24 AM
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Bookslover,
Are you wanting us to validate your getting an earring?
FWIW, I have one but I haven't worn it for several years.
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Old 05-03-2008, 01:32 AM
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I had four at this time. (2002) I still have the holes but I don't wear them any longer. I outgrew the desire to wear them. I rather like getting older and looking and acting my age.
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Old 05-03-2008, 01:52 AM
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Bookslover,
Are you wanting us to validate your getting an earring?
FWIW, I have one but I haven't worn it for several years.
No. I'm just curmudgeonly enough to think that, in our culture, earrings should be for females...
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Old 05-03-2008, 01:54 AM
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Bookslover,
Are you wanting us to validate your getting an earring?
FWIW, I have one but I haven't worn it for several years.
No. I'm just curmudgeonly enough to think that, in our culture, earrings should be for females...
Amen to that.
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Old 05-03-2008, 02:17 AM
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Bookslover,
Are you wanting us to validate your getting an earring?
FWIW, I have one but I haven't worn it for several years.
No. I'm just curmudgeonly enough to think that, in our culture, earrings should be for females...
Which culture is that?
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Old 05-03-2008, 03:04 AM
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Bookslover,
Are you wanting us to validate your getting an earring?
FWIW, I have one but I haven't worn it for several years.
No. I'm just curmudgeonly enough to think that, in our culture, earrings should be for females...
Which culture is that?
The culture which prevailed before relatively recent times when it then became marginally acceptable for men to wear women's jewelry in public.
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Old 05-03-2008, 03:15 AM
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I won't say that it is wrong for men to wear earrings. However, the men in my life don't and I like it that way. I know some very manly men that wear earrings (pirates, Mr. Clean). However, I solidified my opinion on this when I was in the doctor's office. There was a child with long braided hair and earrings named Chris. I remarked that Chris was a pretty girl, much to his mother's dismay. I don't mean to of long hair on men, but long braided hair, earrings, and Chris? I felt like I had met a child's version of Pat from SNL.
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Old 05-03-2008, 05:16 AM
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having an earing violates no biblical standards...let's all get'em
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I don't think guys wearing earings is a new thing. I'm 50, and I can remember two guys in high school who wore earings. Times must have been tough back then, 'cause each could only afford one earing. As I recall, both wore their earings on the left ear. Not sure why, maybe they were both right handed and it was easier to get it on that ear.
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Old 05-03-2008, 07:40 AM
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As long as they carry a matching purse it's ok.
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As long as they carry a matching purse it's ok.
I agree. There's nothing worse than a guy wearing earings when their purse doesn't match. A bit tacky, if you ask me.
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Old 05-03-2008, 08:59 AM
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It use to be a good argument that only sissies wore earings. Then, Michael Jordan and others like him started wearing them, so that blows that argument right out of the water!!!

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So, if Michael started wearing high heels, does that mean its ok to...
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Old 05-03-2008, 09:16 AM
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To those who wear earrings...well, that's their business. But this Bubba don't wear no earrrings.

Never did, never will.
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Old 05-03-2008, 09:18 AM
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As long as they carry a matching purse it's ok.
Its not a purse, it is a carry all.

I put holes in my ears to be a 'rebel'.. And once I met my wife, I pretty much doubled my inventory!!!!
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Old 05-03-2008, 09:19 AM
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It use to be a good argument that only sissies wore earings. Then, Michael Jordan and others like him started wearing them, so that blows that argument right out of the water!!!

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Yeah...

That would be OK too.

Because, let's face it. MJ has more 'manliness' in his little pinky toe than any of us have in our entire bodies.

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Old 05-03-2008, 09:34 AM
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Because, let's face it. MJ has more 'manliness' in his little pinky toe than any of us have in our entire bodies.
Not really. Take a closer look at his life, you may come up with a different conclusion.
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Old 05-03-2008, 09:38 AM
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I forget, what was the Gay ear? If a man wore a ring in what ear?
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I forget, what was the Gay ear? If a man wore a ring in what ear?
I seem to remember a saying, something like "Left is right, right is wrong" to help people remember. The right ear?
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I forget, what was the Gay ear? If a man wore a ring in what ear?
Gay ear? Is that part of the same rule as the one about rainbow avatars?

I always was too stuffy to do it myself. When one of my sons got them, I went a little postal (he had those big "plugs" for a time, the kind that look deformative). Now this son wears more modest sized earrings and it is fine with me. My other boys (the pastor and the lawyer) show no interest in ear decorations.
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Old 05-03-2008, 10:23 AM
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I had four at this time. (2002) I still have the holes but I don't wear them any longer. I outgrew the desire to wear them. I rather like getting older and looking and acting my age.
Great picture, Randy. Did you have tatooes to go with the earrings?
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Old 05-03-2008, 10:24 AM
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I forget, what was the Gay ear? If a man wore a ring in what ear?
Remember the line, left is right and right is wrong.
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Old 05-03-2008, 10:26 AM
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