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Old 06-28-2008, 10:35 PM
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Question Do you say Grace in public?

If you are go out to eat with family and friends, do you Pray before eating?
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When I am with Christian friends and family, yes.
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Sometimes, but not as often as I should.
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I give thanks, sometimes audibly, sometimes silently.
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Sometimes, but not as often as I should.
Actually, I HAVE started into conversation and let it slip! Oops!
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I give thanks, sometimes audibly, sometimes silently.
Silent counts! God can hear!
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I pray with my family or Christian friends; if I'm with someone I don't think is a believer, I bow my head for a quick, silent prayer -- not making a big deal about it.
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I pray with my family or Christian friends; if I'm with someone I don't think is a believer, I bow my head for a quick, silent prayer -- not making a big deal about it.
Not a bad policy, it keeps the unbeliever from A. Making mockery. B. Keeps them in a "comfort level" so that they can be ministered to.
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I always pray before receiving food. Would you believe that the admonition to "pray without ceasing" explains my need for a diet? No. Would you believe . . .

* If I am with other Chrisitan people we always pray.
* If I am representing my ministry with a vendor, I request permission to return thanks audibly before the meal (nobody has ever refused to permit me to lead in prayer).
* If I'm with non believers in a business setting, I pray silently.
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Sometimes, but not as often as I should.
Actually, I HAVE started into conversation and let it slip! Oops!
Why is praying before each meal something we SHOULD do?
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Sometimes, but not as often as I should.
Actually, I HAVE started into conversation and let it slip! Oops!
Why is praying before each meal something we SHOULD do?
Read post #10, it shows our thanks to the Lord for provision, Christ Himself blessed meals.
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Is saying thanks after the meal alright to? I sometimes forget to ask the blessing especially when in a hurry but always try to remember to give thanks for the meal received when finished. Mostly aloud but when necessary, silent.
I have seen some people say the blessing so loud they had the attention of everyone in the restaurant. Not sure though if they had God's.
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We did before eating at a Chinese food resteraunt tonight.
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We did before eating at a Chinese food resteraunt tonight.
Amen. Chinese food is great, so I am always thankful for it!
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My wife makes sure we do, even if I 'forget'!

BTW, welcome back, etexas!!!!!!
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My wife makes sure we do, even if I 'forget'!

BTW, welcome back, etexas!!!!!!
Hi Ken! Yes my wife is pretty good at reminding me as well! To Godly wives!
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I'm going to get some spaghetti. I'll try not to eat it like this guy though.
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Hi Ken! Yes my wife is pretty good at reminding me as well! To Godly wives!

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I'm going to get some spaghetti. I'll try not to eat it like this guy though.
I thought that was the proper way to eat spaghetti!
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Yes, but... I don't like the attitude that feels we must disturb everyone elses meal by standing up and bawling our prayer at the top of our lungs.

When with unbelieving friends, bowing the head is obvious but inobtrusive. At home, of course, we do as normal.
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Yes, but... I don't like the attitude that feels we must disturb everyone elses meal by standing up and bawling our prayer at the top of our lungs.

When with unbelieving friends, bowing the head is obvious but inobtrusive. At home, of course, we do as normal.
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