Thomas,
Let me say in the first place that I have much sympathy with what you have expressed and you will find many on this board who would agree.
With that said I find that as both a Christian member of a "conservative Reformed Baptist" church as well as an elder in that church that my list of what is conducive to sanctification and what is not so conducive varies to greater and lesser degrees among like-minded confessional brethren.
There is ever the danger to, on the one hand, be slowly seduced by the world and, on the other hand lapse into a written list of what all should see as approved; i.e. legalism.
Finding the balance for oneself and figuring out how, and how much, to tolerate in others is no small attainment.
Romans 14: 22 Do you have faith? Have it to yourself before God. Happy is he who does not condemn himself in what he approves. 23 But he who doubts is condemned if he eats, because he does not eat from faith; for whatever is not from faith is sin.
Bob, elder, RBC Louisville. 1689 LBCF
"... Of such also, or of those who make a credible profession of being such, all those particular churches consist, which constitute our Lord's visible kingdom. ... Consequently, all the subjects of His government must have spiritual dispositions, , and yield spiritual obedience- obedience proceeding from an enlightened understanding, an awakened conscience, and a renewed heart."- Abraham Booth 1788
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