I remember when I used to call myself a 4-Point Calvinist. I thought, how could the God I worship, from the beginning of time condemn people to hell?
My problems stemmed from me belonging to a non-denominational church that, sadly, wasn't strong in teaching correct doctrines of grace. Therefore, I had a skewed view of the Gospel.
Sorta reminds me of the Tozer quote, "Low views of God destroy the Gospel for all who hold them."
A friend suggested I read RC Sprouls great work "Chosen By God". After reading this, it seemed that where I was once blind to the greatness of God in relation to the Gospel, I could now see. And it was marvelous and wonderful to me. 5-point Calvinism was the Gospel more fully explained.
So, I don't believe that there is such a person that is a 4-point Calvinist. All the truths/points belong together, and if you fail in one the rest fall apart too. I think your friend just needs to spend more time getting to know God and how awesome, powerful, soveriegn, holy, etc., He really is. Once that is accomplished, to a greater degree, he will have no problem with Limited Atonement.
Something I had to realize is that people aren't merely condemned to hell after they die (and having rejected Christ), but the moment they were conceived they were condemned. I think a fuller knowledge of Original Sin might be helpful too. A verse that was helpful to me was John 3:18, "He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is
condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God." And the fact that God even chooses to save anyone is a mercy and not a requirement...
But I totally can relate to your friend.
Also, I agree with the above poster who said that there are other factors involved with being Reformed. It's not only being a Calvinist.
A wonderful topic. Thanks.
- Alex
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