The PuritanBoard  

Go Back   The PuritanBoard > The Church > Church Office

Church Office Discussions related to Church Office - Pastors, Elders, Deacons, Doctors, & Evangelists.

» Online Users: 39
8 members and 31 guests
David, David G, jeffm05, johnbugay, LeeJUk, Ruby, TimV
Most users ever online was 856, 07-06-2007 at 12:19 AM.
Closed Thread
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1 (permalink)  
Old 06-21-2008, 08:38 PM
doctorcello's Avatar
Puritanboard Freshman
 
Join Date: May 2008
Location: Signal Mountain, TN
Posts: 26
Thanks: 0
Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts
Deaconesses & Presbytery

I'm looking for advice/counsel. There are some churches in my presbytery (PCA) who have woman deaconesses on their diaconates. What should I as a concientious Teaching Elder DO? Do nothing? Ask my Session to Overture the presbytery? If so, what to say in the overture? Then if the presbytery rejects the overture, then what to do? Is this the battlefield to die on? Should I just see that my own congregation toes the line and ignore the other churches? I'm perplexed.
__________________
Dr. M. St. John, Pastor
Wayside Presbyterian Church (PCA)
Signal Mtn, TN
"Trusting only in the grace of God..."
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
  #2 (permalink)  
Old 06-21-2008, 08:57 PM
toddpedlar's Avatar
Iron Dramatist
 
Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: Decorah, IA
Posts: 6,251
Thanks: 247
Thanked 2,367 Times in 1,238 Posts
I assume these are of the "commissioned, but not ordained" variety? I'm glad I'm not in your shoes... these churches are, I'm sure, convinced of their not being in technical violation of the BCO - and if they're the majority in your presbytery...
__________________
Todd K. Pedlar
member, First Congregational Church, (CCCC) Cresco, IA
http://inprincipiodeus.solideogloria.com
http://puritanwisdom.blogspot.com

"As God did not at first choose you because you were high, He will not now forsake you because you are low."
John Flavel in Keeping the Heart



Click to get: Board Rules -- Signature Requirements -- Suggestions?
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
  #3 (permalink)  
Old 06-21-2008, 10:57 PM
swilson's Avatar
Puritanboard Freshman
 
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Las Vegas, Nevada
Posts: 34
Thanks: 2
Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post
Tough one.
My personal two cents is this: if they are just given the title, because they serve....I wouldn't make a big deal over this. If it is an office that in some way has dominion over men - take up thy sword, brother.
__________________
S Edward Wilson
Just Moved, Looking for New Church
Las Vegas, Nevada
http://sedwardwilson.wordpress.com
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
  #4 (permalink)  
Old 06-21-2008, 11:35 PM
toddpedlar's Avatar
Iron Dramatist
 
Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: Decorah, IA
Posts: 6,251
Thanks: 247
Thanked 2,367 Times in 1,238 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by swilson View Post
Tough one.
My personal two cents is this: if they are just given the title, because they serve....I wouldn't make a big deal over this. If it is an office that in some way has dominion over men - take up thy sword, brother.
ruling over men is not the ONLY reason women should be rejected as deacons. But then we've covered that ground already. In either case, the churches ordaining (or commissioning) the women as deacons, having them serve openly on the "diaconate" (just as they do at Redeemer in NYC), are flatly circumventing the BCO in spirit and/or in letter and should be pressed to explain themselves in the appropriate church court.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
  #5 (permalink)  
Old 06-21-2008, 11:42 PM
Barnpreacher's Avatar
Puritanboard Junior
 
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Tennessee
Posts: 1,766
Thanks: 432
Thanked 315 Times in 201 Posts
I thought this was done at Ryken's church (Tenth Presbyterian) as well???
__________________
Ryan Barnhart - Pastor of OGBC
Husband to a beautiful wife, Father to two beautiful girls
Student at Greenville Presbyterian Theological Seminary - B.D.

"I confess to you, that if I can but live and die serving the Lord Jesus, it will make no difference to me whether I am eaten by Cannibals or by worms. And in the Great Day my Resurrection body will rise as fair as yours in the likeness of our risen Redeemer." - John Paton
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
  #6 (permalink)  
Old 06-21-2008, 11:48 PM
toddpedlar's Avatar
Iron Dramatist
 
Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: Decorah, IA
Posts: 6,251
Thanks: 247
Thanked 2,367 Times in 1,238 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by Barnpreacher View Post
I thought this was done at Ryken's church (Tenth Presbyterian) as well???
I wasn't sure they were still ordaining deaconesses, but in any case the practice of doing so at that church (because it came in as an RPCES church at the outset) was allowed - the practice was grandmothered, in other words.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
The Following User Says Thank You to toddpedlar For This Useful Post:
Barnpreacher (06-21-2008)
  #7 (permalink)  
Old 06-22-2008, 10:15 PM
jfschultz's Avatar
Puritanboard Sophomore
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Germantown, TN
Posts: 791
Thanks: 5
Thanked 95 Times in 65 Posts
Yes, this is a tough one. But in a sense it is more than just ordaining women as deacons in that it reflects on one's view of Scriptural authority.

When the Apostles asked for the selection of deacons in Acts 6, they specified men of good repute. Paul sets this forward as the standard in I Timothy. When one takes the examples of what happened as also normative, you have created a contradiction in the Bible!

I was appalled when I heard Dr. DeWitt, a former RTS professor, cite example as why Second Presbyterian in Memphis should change their way and begin to ordain women as deacons when they voted on the issue. I was under the impression that the problem of taking example as setting a norm contrary to teaching was a topic in Theology 101!

Perhaps my posting in the other thread about adultery and murder was a bit extreme, but it is the logical conclusion of taking example as setting a norm against teaching.
__________________
Soli Deo Gloria

John Schultz
Member, Riveroaks Reformed Presbyterian Church (PCA)
Germantown, TN

"The reason why we worship God in a slight way is because we do not see God in His glory"
Jeremiah Burroughs
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
  #8 (permalink)  
Old 06-23-2008, 10:17 AM
wsw201's Avatar
The BOOOOT
 
Join Date: Dec 2002
Location: Hurst, Texas
Posts: 2,622
Thanks: 37
Thanked 164 Times in 111 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by doctorcello View Post
I'm looking for advice/counsel. There are some churches in my presbytery (PCA) who have woman deaconesses on their diaconates. What should I as a concientious Teaching Elder DO? Do nothing? Ask my Session to Overture the presbytery? If so, what to say in the overture? Then if the presbytery rejects the overture, then what to do? Is this the battlefield to die on? Should I just see that my own congregation toes the line and ignore the other churches? I'm perplexed.
I would highly recommend you talk to the Session and submit charges against that church. By simply ignoring it and taking the "turtle" position is no answer. This deaconess stuff is infecting the church of which you are apart of. If you don't stand up and be counted you will find this infection spreading into your congregation.
__________________
~Wayne Wylie~
Member, Mid Cities Presbyterian Church (OPC)
Ruling Elder
http://www.mcopc.org
Bedford, TX

Job 28:28 - And unto man he said, Behold, the fear of the Lord, that is wisdom; and to depart from evil is understanding.

Click to get: Board Rules -- Signature Requirements -- Suggestions?
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
The Following User Says Thank You to wsw201 For This Useful Post:
Josiah (07-13-2008)
  #9 (permalink)  
Old 06-23-2008, 10:40 AM
TimV's Avatar
Puritanboard Botanist
 
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Oceano, CA, USA
Posts: 5,463
Thanks: 1,886
Thanked 2,407 Times in 1,138 Posts
Quote:
I would highly recommend you talk to the Session and submit charges against that church.
First find out if they are "unordained" Deacons. The PCA doesn't seem to want to take that one on yet, for fear of loosing that 20% who like Barth, Wright, Creation account metaphorism, feminism etc..

If they are ordaining women, a simple written complaint to the Session will stop that in a couple weeks, and those women already ordained will be required to either step down, be put under counseling or get put into that Tim Keller joke of a class called Unordained Deacons. Do it carefully though, and get opinions from people here on this board. Cultivate a relationship with some experienced men who you can contact privately. Some of those liberal PCA Elders are passionate in the extreme, and when I complained about ordaining Baptists and Arminians I got my way, but also got a sermon preached against me calling me demon possessed.
__________________
Tim Vaughan
Member, Redeemer Presbyterian, OPC,
Santa Maria
California
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
  #10 (permalink)  
Old 06-23-2008, 11:15 AM
Romans922's Avatar
Puritanboard Senior
 
Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: Tchula, MS
Posts: 2,567
Thanks: 135
Thanked 560 Times in 259 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by doctorcello View Post
I'm looking for advice/counsel. There are some churches in my presbytery (PCA) who have woman deaconesses on their diaconates. What should I as a concientious Teaching Elder DO? Do nothing? Ask my Session to Overture the presbytery? If so, what to say in the overture? Then if the presbytery rejects the overture, then what to do? Is this the battlefield to die on? Should I just see that my own congregation toes the line and ignore the other churches? I'm perplexed.
You should overture the Presbytery because that is the sessions role. Research a little first, then write up an overture.

Talk to Fred Greco on how to overture or what the overture should say (He is on the Puritanboard).


The BCO is clear and churches in your presbytery are Clearly breaking it. Which is contrary to their vows to uphold it.
__________________
Rev. Andrew J. Barnes
Husband of Dena
Father of Oliver
Master of Bruce
Pastor of Tchula Presbyterian Church

What can I say, I like blogs!


Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
  #11 (permalink)  
Old 06-23-2008, 12:17 PM
ahavah7's Avatar
Puritanboard Freshman
 
Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Fayetteville NC
Posts: 65
Thanks: 18
Thanked 16 Times in 8 Posts
I too am a conflicted on what to do about it. It seems we have three options:

1) Ignore it.
2) Craft amendment(s) to the BCO to make it more explicit.
3) Make a complaint (BCO 43) to the respective Session and then to Presbytery if the Session disagrees with the complaint.

I think 1) is no good.

Number 2 above has some merit. It will at least initiate a discussion in your Presbytery about the merits of women as deacons and could be passed and sent to GA. The downside is that the BCO is already clear, so it's kind of difficult to decide where to amend the BCO to make it say what it already says.

I would keep these rules in mind when crafting ammendments.
First, the simpler thae actual ammendment the better. The whereas statements can be as complicated as you like, but verbose and confusing ammendments will alone cause some to vote against it.
Second, If you want to make a change to more than one part of the BCO, then I would make those seperate overtures. If you lump them together, then you may get folks who vote against it because they find one part of the ammendment objectionable. The more seperate ammendments you have in single overture, the more negative votes might accumulate in this way.
Third, I would be careful which part of the BCO you ammend. For example, if you wanted to make a change to the BCO's definition of deacon, then put that in Chapter 9 or 7 which are purely definitional Chapters. If you wanted to make a change to the process of appointing deacons, then Chapter 24 is probably best. Some folks will vote against an ammendment if violates the current organization of the BCO.

Initailly, I thought option 3) might be the more contentious route to take and therefore less adviseable. However, Chapter 43 deals only with overturning the decision of one of the lower courts of the church. Chapter 43 in no way leads to charges or a case of process, so it's really not that contentious. The more I think about it, the more I see this option as being the best option. With this option, the problem could be fixed at Presbytery (or even at the Session level). If the Presbytery could not come to a general consensus, then they could reference (BCO 41) to GA. Whatsmore, if your Presbytery did not rule in your favor, you could still craft an overture for the next meeting of Presbytery.
__________________
Jamie
Ruling Elder, PCA
Fayetteville, NC
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
  #12 (permalink)  
Old 06-23-2008, 01:42 PM
Stephen's Avatar
Puritanboard Senior
 
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Nova Scotia
Posts: 2,026
Thanks: 933
Thanked 272 Times in 180 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by toddpedlar View Post
Quote:
Originally Posted by Barnpreacher View Post
I thought this was done at Ryken's church (Tenth Presbyterian) as well???
I wasn't sure they were still ordaining deaconesses, but in any case the practice of doing so at that church (because it came in as an RPCES church at the outset) was allowed - the practice was grandmothered, in other words.
10th does not ordain deaconesses but commissions them.
__________________
Stephen Welch
PCA Teaching Elder
Nova Scotia :cheers:
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
  #13 (permalink)  
Old 06-23-2008, 01:45 PM
Puritanboard Senior
 
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: UK
Posts: 2,802
Thanks: 197
Thanked 394 Times in 256 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by jfschultz View Post
When the Apostles asked for the selection of deacons in Acts 6, they specified men of good repute.
See this.
__________________
Richard
CofE
UK
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
  #14 (permalink)  
Old 06-28-2008, 11:55 AM
Stephen's Avatar
Puritanboard Senior
 
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Nova Scotia
Posts: 2,026
Thanks: 933
Thanked 272 Times in 180 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by Romans922 View Post
Quote:
Originally Posted by doctorcello View Post
I'm looking for advice/counsel. There are some churches in my presbytery (PCA) who have woman deaconesses on their diaconates. What should I as a concientious Teaching Elder DO? Do nothing? Ask my Session to Overture the presbytery? If so, what to say in the overture? Then if the presbytery rejects the overture, then what to do? Is this the battlefield to die on? Should I just see that my own congregation toes the line and ignore the other churches? I'm perplexed.
You should overture the Presbytery because that is the sessions role. Research a little first, then write up an overture.

Talk to Fred Greco on how to overture or what the overture should say (He is on the Puritanboard).


The BCO is clear and churches in your presbytery are Clearly breaking it. Which is contrary to their vows to uphold it.
What about congregations in an entire presbytery that no longer ordain men to the diaconate? Are they violating the standards also?
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
  #15 (permalink)  
Old 06-28-2008, 01:32 PM
doctorcello's Avatar
Puritanboard Freshman
 
Join Date: May 2008
Location: Signal Mountain, TN
Posts: 26
Thanks: 0
Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts
Funny false alarm

Well, after contacting one church's pastor personally, I found out that their female deacons really aren't. Just a couple of crazy typos on their website. Mary is actually a gentleman: "Marty," and Vanna is actually a Vietnamese man Van Na. I'm glad I took my time and investigated a bit.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
The Following User Says Thank You to doctorcello For This Useful Post:
Hippo (06-28-2008)
  #16 (permalink)  
Old 07-12-2008, 08:07 PM
swilson's Avatar
Puritanboard Freshman
 
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Las Vegas, Nevada
Posts: 34
Thanks: 2
Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post
So this whole thread was a false alarm?
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
  #17 (permalink)  
Old 07-13-2008, 05:55 AM
doctorcello's Avatar
Puritanboard Freshman
 
Join Date: May 2008
Location: Signal Mountain, TN
Posts: 26
Thanks: 0
Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts
For one church it was a false alarm

For another church, still wondering what to do, and still gathering information. Whatever happens, I want to be kind, loving, correct; but careful and not stupid!
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Closed Thread

Bookmarks

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On


Powered by vBadvanced CMPS v3.2.0

All times are GMT -5. The time now is 06:51 AM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.4
Copyright ©2000 - 2009, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
SEO by vBSEO 3.3.2 ©2009, Crawlability, Inc.
Copyright © 2002-2008 PuritanBoard.com
Hosted by WebsiteMaven - helping ministries with web hosting advice, reviews, and design.
67 Westminster Abbey © Confessional Presbyterian Presses - used with permission.
Add Our Custom Button to your Google Toolbar

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 61 62 63 64 65 66 67 68 69