Gerald E. Winebrenner (gwine) 1952-2007

BobVigneault · #1 (**permalink**) 10-12-2007, 10:53 AM

Gerry Winebrenner was my best friend. We vacationed together, took trips, haunted Half-Priced books together, showed off our reformed book acquisitions and searched for THE tastiest beer.

Gerry was a non-conformist and consequently a puzzle to many. He didn't watch television at all and could only name shows that he heard the less erudite fellows discussing with irritating and prurient excitement. Gerry's response was to turn off his hearing aids and read the puritan tome he had downloaded to his PDA. His PDA was ever present in his shirt pocket in case he needed a Bible verse or reference or the relative magnitude of a star. Once, on a trip, he figured out where we were by the angle and position of the sun. You see even the smallest detail reveals so much about Gerry because nothing was left to accident.

Take the PDA, he only wore shirts that had a front pocket for his pda. We were given the opportunity to order shirts with our Church name on it. Gerry raised his hand and asked if the shirt had a front pocket. The answer was 'no' and so Gerry didn't order a shirt - it was a simple matter of boolean logic for him. If the pocket = 0, then 'the placement of the order' is a null set. That is how Gerry thought. He knew what he liked and what he didn't like and it was all algebra and calculus. Gerry was a geek's geek. His passwords were uncrackable yet memorized - he knew pi to around 20 places.

Consider a previous post of his as an example of what I'm speaking of:

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And God said:

∇ • E = ρ / εo

∇ • B = 0

∇ x E = - ∂B/∂t

∇ x B = μoJ + μoεo∂E/∂t

And it was so.

Rev 21:23 And the city has no need of sun or moon to shine on it, for the glory of God gives it light, and its lamp is the Lamb.
Rev 21:24 By its light will the nations walk, and the kings of the earth will bring their glory into it,
Rev 21:25 and its gates will never be shut by day--and there will be no night there.

or his very last post on the PB in which he quoted from The Journal of Irreproducible Results, vol. 20, #3, March 1974, pages 22-23. Where did he find that and why?

He didn't view the world as most of us see it.

Gerry didn't hear the world as most of us hear it either. Gerry was deaf. With super powered hearing aids he was able to hear certain frequencies and with his ability to read lips he could follow a conversation extremely well. He worked incredibly hard on pronouncing words. If he encountered a word he was unsure of he would ask someone to repeat it and he would watch their lips closely, then he would repeat it and ask for feedback until he spoke the word perfectly. Most folks would never guess he couldn't hear. The amazing thing is, in spite of what should have made conversation a struggle, Gerry could and did start up a conversation with anyone. Even though his years as a youth were filled with ridicule because of his disability, he made strangers feel accepted and cared about.

He was a sprout farmer. There was always a crop of sprouts growing in his front window. Everyday he would take a sprout sandwich with him to General Motors where he worked as an electrician. Yesterday, as Deb and the boys were trying to decide on a floral arrangement to go on top of the casket, poor exhausted Deb said, "Bob, what do you think?" I had to laugh as I looked at the pictures of pretty flowers. "I've been wracking my brain trying to remember any conversations about flowers that we might have had," I answered, "Gerry fought the norm, he would have wanted SPROUTS on his casket." He was into health. He exercised and ate whole grains. (Deb makes all their breads.) He wouldn't take an aspirin, he drank pure water, he avoided sunlight and always put safety first. When I heard that speed was a factor in the car crash I knew a few things were certain - that Gerry would have had his seat belt on, was fully attentive to his driving and well under the speed limit. We knew that if speed was a factor then it was the other guy who was reckless. The coroner confirmed by investigation what we all knew through intimacy with our practical Gerry.

Needless to say, it's impossible to capture a lifetime in these few lines. I just wanted to reveal some of the things that made Gerry unique and special as a friend. His most important attribute came up yesterday as we were trying to select a verse to sit opposite his obituary on the program for the funeral. The booklet of samples had about 75 trite, sentimental and generic verses about memories of our dear friend and love is like a dove and whatever. Mutual friend and pastor, David King, said that he could come up with much better verses if Deb would like. Again Deb turned to me and asked if I had an opinion. I told her that Gerry would not like any of these, nor would he like words that said how wonderful he was. "If it's not Christ honoring, then Gerry wouldn't like it." Pastor David opened his Bible and read the passages that will be listed in the program.

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1 Peter 1:3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! According to his great mercy, he has caused us to be born again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead.

1Corinthians 15:20 But in fact Christ has been raised from the dead, the firstfruits of those who have fallen asleep. 21 For as by a man came death, by a man has come also the resurrection of the dead. 22 For as in Adam all die, so also in Christ shall all be made alive. 23 But each in his own order: Christ the firstfruits, then at his coming those who belong to Christ.

John 11:25 Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live.

So this is the legacy Gerry leaves us: know what you like and what you don't like but in both of these choices, honor God and his Son Jesus Christ. If Gerry could speak now, those who knew and love Gerry can easily imagine that his words would mirror the sentiments of the Apostle Paul when he said -

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But whatever gain I had, I counted as loss for the sake of Christ. Indeed, I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For his sake I have suffered the loss of all things and count them as rubbish, in order that I may gain Christ and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which comes through faith in Christ, the righteousness from God that depends on faith— that I may know him and the power of his resurrection, and may share his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, that by any means possible I may attain the resurrection from the dead. Philippians 3:7-11

Gerald E. Winebrenner 1952-2007

Blueridge Baptist · #2 (**permalink**) 10-12-2007, 11:03 AM

That was beautiful dear brother.

victorbravo · #3 (**permalink**) 10-12-2007, 11:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Blueridge Baptist

That was beautiful dear brother.

Indeed, you were truly blessed to have such a good and faithful friend. We were blessed as well, from a distance.

caddy · #4 (**permalink**) 10-12-2007, 11:32 AM

Thanks for your encouraging letter Bob.

Paul in Philippians 1:9-11:

And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless until the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ--to the glory and praise of God.

What a wonderful thing to be blameless and in the presence of our Lord!

Semper Fidelis · #5 (**permalink**) 10-12-2007, 11:54 AM

I'd use a crying smiley but it would be so crass to capture that tribute...

Bob, when I die, I want a friend like you to be by my loved ones helping them.

I'm so, so sorry for your loss.

I'm very glad we could do this to memorialize Gerry. It's such a small thing and the Internet is hardly the same as the visible touch of those in our visible Church but it is a small corner where those of us, united to Christ in His death and resurrection, can share our common joy in Him.

Thank you God for letting Gerry cross our path. Comfort those he left behind. Death is our enemy and so we weep. But not as those without hope.

Pilgrim's Progeny · #6 (**permalink**) 10-12-2007, 12:41 PM

Speechless! I would love to have a friendship like that which was between you and Gerry. I have officiated several funerals and I have always been comforted when I could say that the God of Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, is(not was) the God of the deceased as well. What glorious comfort from our Sovereign.

Ivan · #7 (**permalink**) 10-12-2007, 02:09 PM

Thank you, Bob, for a wonderful tribute. You can be sure that Gerry can hear now!

I receive Grace Gems every day via email. I thought today's offering was very appropriate.

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Your dying day

(Thomas Watson, "The Lord's Prayer")

"Do not be afraid, little flock, for your Father has been pleased to give you the kingdom!" --- Luke 12:32

What little cause have the saints to fear death! Are any afraid of going to a glorious kingdom? What is there in this world that should make us desirous to stay here? Is not this world "a valley of tears"--and do we weep to leave it? Are we not in a wilderness among fiery serpents--and are we afraid to leave these serpents?

God is ever displaying the banner of His love in heaven, and is there any love like His? Are there any sweeter smiles, or softer embraces than His? What hurt can death do to them--but lead them to a glorious kingdom! Let this be a gospel antidote to expel the fear of death.

Christian, your dying day will be your wedding day--and do you fear it? Is a slave afraid to be set free? Is a virgin afraid to be matched into the crown? Death may take away a few worldly comforts--but it gives that which is better; it takes away a flower--and gives a jewel! If the saints possess a kingdom when they die, they have no cause to fear death. A prince would not be afraid to cross the sea, though tempestuous--if he were sure to be crowned as soon as he came to shore!

Faith gives a title to heaven--but death gives a possession of heaven! Death brings us to the end of our sorrow, and the beginning of our joy! Death is the entrance into a blessed eternity!

Blueridge Baptist · #8 (**permalink**) 10-12-2007, 02:35 PM

Thoughts On Death

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To debar death from our thoughts, and the future eternal world from our meditations—will neither render us immortal, nor afford us a triumphant dismissal from this into the eternal world—but must make our exit dreadful, and our latter end a scene of ineffable anguish. While, on the other hand, we never enjoy the pleasures of life, the sweets of society, and the endearments of our friends and families, with a better relish—than when serious thoughts of death and eternity predominate in our mind. We should study—

1. To have a practical belief in the future eternal states of both heaven and hell.

2. Not to be much elated with prosperity.

3. Not to be much dejected by adversity.

4. To more and more be weaned from the world, and to have our conversation more and more in heaven.

5. To have frequent meditations on death and eternity; and then, when death comes, we may be made, not only submissive to our dissolution—but long to depart, and be ravished in the prospect of our being forever with the Lord.

JAMES MEIKLE 1730-1799

Kevin · #9 (**permalink**) 10-12-2007, 02:52 PM

Thanks Bob, that was touching.

Barnpreacher · #10 (**permalink**) 10-12-2007, 03:33 PM

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Originally Posted by SemperFideles

I'd use a crying smiley but it would be so crass to capture that tribute...

I was thinking the same thing. This has been very difficult news to follow as it always hurts to lose a brother or sister in Christ here below.

God's grace be upon you and Gerry's family during your loss, Bob.

Anton Bruckner · #11 (**permalink**) 10-12-2007, 07:30 PM

Dedication to Mr. Winebrenner

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=http:...?v=kqBRzgF8crI

bookslover · #12 (**permalink**) 10-12-2007, 07:34 PM

I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your friend, Bob. A very close friend of mind died of brain cancer 5 years ago. He was only 56. So, I've been where you are. My friend was a Christian also, so, while grieving, I was able to also rejoice in that. "Grieving, but not like those who have no hope."

armourbearer · #13 (**permalink**) 10-12-2007, 07:41 PM

Bob, that is very touching. May God touch you with the gentleness of His comforting hand at this time of grief!

tellville · #14 (**permalink**) 10-12-2007, 08:18 PM

Bob, thank you for this thread and your touching words.

Raj · #15 (**permalink**) 10-12-2007, 09:03 PM

"Thank you God for letting Gerry cross our path. Comfort those he left behind. Death is our enemy and so we weep. But not as those without hope."

Amen. So touching words to read about our beloved brother.

Pergamum · #16 (**permalink**) 10-12-2007, 09:23 PM

Saddened, but with a joy in Christ. No partings are forever between friends in Christ. He is just the advance party.

PuritanCovenanter · #17 (**permalink**) 10-12-2007, 10:22 PM

I hate separation. I haven't had to deal with death for quite a few years now. At least nine. I hope for Gerry's family goodness and mercy. I pray their sadness is not long lived. Heaven is looking brighter the older we get. I may be selfish but I like the No Tears Formula Heaven has to offer.

Be Encouraged Bob. You are greatly loved.
Randy

And Gerry will be missed.

a mere housewife · #18 (**permalink**) 10-12-2007, 10:37 PM

Bob he sounds like a truly amazing person and reading your post about his life helped me to be even gladder for his joy, and for God's goodness in creating Him. I will pray for you and his wife and family. Thanks for posting this.

turmeric · #19 (**permalink**) 10-12-2007, 11:37 PM

Can someone find his last post here? It might be interesting. Thank God we'll see him again.

Contra_Mundum · #20 (**permalink**) 10-12-2007, 11:43 PM

I wish I could've know him here.
I'll wait for now, and greet him there.