I think you're summary is accurate as well and reflects how I came to my position several years ago. I think I really became convinced on paedobaptism when I started to really think about the implications of covenantal theology on baptism. When I realized that God was working with his people through covenants and considered how those covenants are applied to the visible church in the new testament era, it came together for me.

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Steve Kellam
Ruling Elder
Redeemer ARP Church (Blacksburg, VA)
Husband to Holly and father to Bethany, Susannah, and Charlotte (and one on the way!)
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