I think the biggest problem today are people's perceptions of what a Pastor's wife
ought to be doing ... almost like it's an office within itself.
IMHO, a Pastor's Wife needs to be the same thing any Christian Wife should be. A helpmeet to her husband, a mother to her children, and a keeper of the home (insofar as Providence allows). In doing these things she will be fulfilling the prescriptions and duties of a biblical wife.
Just my