I am going to be contrary to what most have said so far and say go PCA.
Because church government matters, because the covenant matters, and because the sacraments matter.
As many friends as I have who are in great Reformed Baptist churches, and no matter the level of teaching (in SOME areas,remember they are still baptist
) they will still teach you (and more importantly your children) a false view of the covenant, the sacraments, & church government.
IMHO the insistence of (almost all) Baptist on (heretical) rebabtism of covenant children would be a deal breaker.
Since I am convinced that for a covenant child to be re-baptised (sic) would be a denial of the faith, I could not in good conscience place my family in that setting long term.
