I would take the Baptist church anyday, and I would report the PCA church to their Presbytery. What you described is something I would expect from a PCUSA church.

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Andrew DeShazo, Deacon, Associate Reformed Presbyterian Church, Memphis, TN
"All of us stumble in many ways, but if anyone is never at fault in what he says, then he is mature, able to control his whole body."(James 3:2)