Does not nature itself teach you that if a man wears long hair it is a disgrace for him, 1 Corinthians 11:14

A woman at church rebuked me with this verse. I have longish hair(a little past my shoulders). Is this a command to have it cut? And to what length? What is long and what isn't?

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Ian Kemmerer
Covenant Presbetyrian Church,Reading,PA
Fleetwood,PA

"Be still, my soul: when dearest friends depart, And all is darkened in the vale of tears, Then shalt thou better know His love, His heart, Who comes to soothe thy sorrow and thy fears. Be still, my soul: thy Jesus can repay From His own fullness all He takes away."