OK, but in that case the question is really about whether or not gender selection (and and sex change?) is the domain of man or God.

I still say this is the domain of God.

Note the consequences of the decision. If it's not wrong to change the ordained sex of a unwitting baby then how could it be wrong for an adult to make such a change?

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Traci
Lynnwood OPC
Psalm 52:8-9
8 But I am like a green olive tree in the house of God: I trust in the mercy of God for ever and ever.
9 I will praise thee for ever, because thou hast done it: and I will wait on thy name; for it is good before thy saints.