Thanks to everyone who has commented so far. There seems to be consensus (of those who have spoken up at least). I just wanted to add that the wedding is not going to be part of a church service. It won't be in a church, for that matter. It is being held at a place nearby called "Pine Lake Pavillion," which is, as you may have guessed, a lake with some pine trees and a pavillion.

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Davidius
Husband of Emily
Member of All Saints Anglican Church - Chapel Hill (AMiA / Anglican Church of North America)
Student: University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, German and Classics